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Congratulations!

Crying Discussion » Two new observations » December 9, 2016 3:06 pm

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It's always hard to describe these things, especially because people don't often describe crying in this much detail, so there aren't go-to phrases for the sounds and visuals of sobbing. Also, it's always difficult to tell a story without giving any actual detail - I'm always sort of vague about my fetishes on public forums because of that possibly irrational fear of being identified. But it definitely hinders the storytelling.

Crying Discussion » Two new observations » December 9, 2016 3:02 pm

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One from me and one from my boyfriend.

I'll start with mine: I was really stressed out about a life change a couple of weeks ago, and I was tearing up while talking about it with my boyfriend. He was being very comforting and trying to help me figure out how to feel better about it, but I was still very upset. We went upstairs to bed, and as we were lying there and continuing to talk, I began to sob. I was curled up against his chest, and his arms were wrapped tightly around me. I sobbed fairly hard for about five minutes, while he rubbed my back, hugged me, and told me he was right there and would always hold me while I cry. An interesting thing happened, though - he knows that even when I'm upset, my own crying turns me on, so when I'd stopped crying and was feeling a bit better, he was obviously very aroused, and we ended up having sex. I was thrilled that the whole situation had turned him on, and I joked that he was going to end up with a crying fetish himself. He said, mostly joking but with truthful intent, "who knows? If you like it, I like it."

Now an obs about him: about two weeks ago, we were arguing about something - it wasn't really a fight, we were just trying to figure out how to compromise on an issue. The issue wasn't really about our relationship - it brought up some things from our pasts (deaths, etc.) and a couple of minor issues that we ended up resolving. But anyway, we were already very emotional, and we'd both been wiping the occasional tear from our cheeks throughout the conversation. I made a comment about a topic he always gets deeply emotional about, and I think I was slightly too flippant - not in a mean way, but he was already on the verge of breaking down. We were lying on the couch, and he buried his face in my chest and started to sob.

I apologized, and he shook his head, indicating that he wasn't actually upset about what I'd said (he was actually upset about the bigger issue, which I knew), but he was sobbing too hard to speak f

Crying Discussion » Audio of me crying » November 3, 2016 1:40 am

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Glad you guys enjoyed it! I enjoyed recording and posting it.

Crying Discussion » Audio of me crying » November 1, 2016 4:16 pm

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If only I'd started recording sooner. I sobbed really hard for a good half an hour before it occurred to me to record.

Crying Discussion » Audio of me crying » November 1, 2016 4:12 pm

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As promised, I thought I'd try uploading an audio clip of my own crying! Let me know what you think.

http://vocaroo.com/i/s0ooRqXwwsdi

This was a crying episode that I posted about on here a couple of months ago. It's a four-minute clip of audio from the video - I'm not comfortable with actually posting the video right now. Most of the video is sniffling/shaky breathing, but my favorite part is the intermittent sobbing.

I'm doing a pretty good lip curl during the sobs. Perhaps I'll have the courage to post close-ups of my mouth at some point.

Crying Discussion » Just sobbed » September 20, 2016 6:44 pm

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Some issues were overwhelming me, and I just sobbed harder than I have in a long time.

My BF and I had a discussion about some things that I've been upset about, and then he had to leave for a meeting. I shed a few tears during our discussion, but when he walked out the door, I just felt lonely and as if our conversation was unfinished (not his fault; he really did have to go). I usually prefer crying with him, but I just couldn't hold it in. I went upstairs to the bedroom, curled up under the covers, and sobbed. At first, it was a few silent sobs, but it gradually became more intense. I was doing a lip curl for sure, and my shoulders and belly were shaking with each sob. I'd say there were fifteen seconds between breaths during the hardest sobs.

I calmed down a bit and wiped my tears, but then it occurred to me that perhaps I should try to push out a few more and record myself (something I've always wanted to actually do but never really been able to). I went downstairs, took out my phone, and got four minutes of intermittent sobs. I've never watched my actual crying before, and it was very arousing.

I'd be willing to post the audio from the video, if anyone is interested. I don't really want to share the full video or actual screenshots, but perhaps I'll work up the courage to post a close-up of my mouth or some such!

Crying Discussion » Self and BF obs » September 16, 2016 12:12 am

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NeedHerSobs wrote:

Agree with the above, especially when the sobbing stops for a second and there's that suspense before the breath.

Like, "it's coming, it's coming..." and then the person crying takes a desparate gasp against your ear and it's just so sweet and satisfying.

What about you? Do your sobs make your shoulders and chest and belly heave real hard? Do you take desperate breaths?

When I'm sobbing, my chest and belly definitely heave pretty hard. I have to say, I don't take really sharp breaths between sobs - more staggering inhales, and then there's usually a period of a long exhale/tightening of stomach muscles before a short breath and more sobs.

My BF's rate of sobs/heaves is much quicker than mine. His whole body shakes, which is really delightful. He doesn't take sharp breaths, as I said above - he takes staggering breaths, similar to me. Once, we were standing outside, and I had my arms around him, and he wasn't quite crying, but I felt his stomach muscles kind of convulse once, and he made a soft vocalization (like sort of a moan/beginning of a sob), and when I pulled back from the hug, his eyes were wet. The feeling of his stomach against mine, in that private moment (he didn't start crying, so no once else would have been able to tell) was beautiful. But he definitely sobs more readily than I do. My crying is often longer, sustained exhales followed by several short inhales.

How about you? How would you describe your own crying?

Crying Discussion » Self and BF obs » September 15, 2016 7:27 pm

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NeedHerSobs wrote:

carrotcake wrote:

Not incredibly hard this time, but there were a few seconds of silent, heaving sobs. Mostly I was talking, and sometimes I'd stop because I was crying, but in those instances, it was more of a prolonged holding of breath before I could inhale again.

Silent sobs can be very sexy. There's always the wonder as to whether they'll get harder and the anticipation of the inhale of breath. My friend Alicia tends to sob silently at times for prolonged periods. She likes to sit on my lap, facing me with her legs straddled, and I can just feel her whole body racked with silent sobs.

I agree! One of the things I focus on is the breath and the way the shoulders and stomach heave. Running out of breath/sobbing so hard one has trouble taking a breath is very sexy. I love rapid-fire, racking sobs.

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