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Crying Discussion » Heard someone cry today » September 28, 2018 2:30 pm

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She sounded young. It wasn't that frustrating because I'm not sure exactly what I would have done if a stranger had started sobbing right in front of me. I know I fantasize about that, but in the moment it's often extremely uncomfortable. 

Crying Discussion » Heard someone cry today » September 26, 2018 10:01 pm

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I was at work today in an area where there's a balcony level that's audible but not visible to anyone standing on the first floor. I heard a couple of people talking, and then I suddenly heard one loud vocalization. I at first assumed it was a woman laughing, but in the back of my mind, I thought that it almost sounded like a sob. About 15 seconds later, I heard a sharp inhalation, followed by another single loud sob, and I realized there was indeed someone crying. I think she was alone (the people talking were apparently unrelated, as they'd disappeared). Another 15-20 seconds later, she inhaled loudly twice. I then heard her break down in loud, low-pitched, rapid sobs as she continued walking out of my hearing range. Not sure what was going on, and it was definitely a stranger who was pretty removed from my work area, so I guess I will never know. It was lovely to hear, though. I hope she's all right now.

Crying Discussion » does your SO know? » September 14, 2018 4:13 pm

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My husband knows. I'm very lucky because not only is he understanding, he also really loves it and actively suggests incorporating it into our sex life. My ex also knew and was fine with it. I tend to be a little insecure about it, but they both reassure(d) me that it wasn't weird and that it was part of what made me the empathetic/comforting person they love(d).

Dacrypticphile, that is exactly the fear that sits in the back of my mind: that my H will somehow worry that I'll enjoy his pain too much. Whenever I say that, he says, "but I like when you enjoy things" and hugs me. So I have to take him at his word.

He also goes out of his way to cry in front of me, text me any time something makes him tear up, show me his teary eyes when we're watching a movie or whatever, and tell me he doesn't want to cry around or be comforted by any woman but me. He also has started getting aroused when either of us cries, which is an interesting development for sure.

Crying Videos » Selected videos » August 11, 2018 10:06 pm

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#6 is so hot - one of my fantasies is that I'd overhear a woman sobbing in a public bathroom.

Crying Discussion » Public male obs » July 2, 2018 12:11 am

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Really interesting observation yesterday. My husband and I were taking the bus home, and we sat across from a middle-aged guy who struck up a conversation with us. I had the feeling he was a social person who had a hard life and is now pretty lonely, because he launched into a lot of detail about his personal life, his past, and his trip to the store. After he'd been talking to us for about 5 minutes, he started talking about an emotional event he'd witnessed, and he said to us, "I think I'm actually going to cry about this."

The whole thing was a bit uncomfortable, of course; this complete stranger was sharing really personal stuff with us and was about to break down. But honestly, I didn't mind listening to him talk at all. He was very friendly, even if he was being a bit socially awkward.

Anyway, as he predicted, he started to cry a few seconds later. He kept talking, but his eyes filled with tears and started to stream down his face. He wiped them away as they streamed steadily while he spoke. I didn't hear any catch in his voice, although he did pause a couple of times to take a deep breath. This went on for about 10 minutes, and eventually he gathered his composure and changed the subject - we reached our stop shortly thereafter. It was a fascinating experience.

Crying Videos » Videos with tears rolling down the neck and chest (Female) » June 28, 2018 11:18 pm

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Another good one in that hypnosis series (fewer tears, but some good sobs): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qaQQAQjjQYo
 

Crying Discussion » self and H obs » June 28, 2018 11:11 pm

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Thanks, everyone. We have excellent communication, so it's working out beautifully.

Amans, we do kiss each other's tears. In fact, he teases me if I wipe away my own tears, like, "oh, I wanted to wipe/kiss those," and he also always turns his cheek toward me if he's shed a tear so that I can take care of it. He teared up on a road trip once while we were singing an emotional song - he was driving, but he lowered his sunglasses so I could see his tears.

It doesn't seem to interfere with genuine emotional experiences, fortunately. He says that when he's crying, he doesn't think about my fetish until afterward, and even if it does occur to him, it just makes him want to be more vulnerable. As he puts it, "I like when you're aroused, so why wouldn't I like something that arouses you?" lol.

And he's always eager to be comforted by me - he often curls up on my chest or in my arms and asks me to hold him, even when he's not crying. He's very affectionate, and we have a good balance of comforter/comfortee between the two of us; he also loves holding me. I've found that I enjoy being comforted by him more than I have by other partners. I enjoy the emotional warmth, but I also sometimes get aroused just by being held nowadays, which is the reverse of the scenario I usually desire (although I've always been aroused by my own crying). I think it's the general emotional intimacy, which I suppose is not specific to this (or any) fetish.

Crying Discussion » self and H obs » June 27, 2018 7:16 pm

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I cried a lot last night. At first, I was just tearing up a little, but they spilled over as I talked, and eventually I was lying on my husband's chest, sobbing hysterically. I was speaking, too, and my voice was a bit choked, but I repeatedly had to stop speaking to sob. These were tense, gripping sobs that forced my mouth into a large, contorted bulge as my stomach muscles clenched. I remained in that suspended state for probably 15 or 20 seconds each time, unable to breathe, my eyes squeezed shut and tears streaming down my face, into my open mouth, and onto my H's shirt. These tense sobs were interspersed with talking, as well as some rapid-fire sobs. The whole event lasted probably two hours (H and I were working through an issue, which we eventually resolved pretty well, but I was very upset).

Okay, switching gears: The other night, H asked what I wanted to do, and I told him I wanted to watch an emotional movie with him. He was really into it - he understood that I wanted to watch a movie that would make us cry. We chose one and watched it, and indeed, we both cried at the end. Tears streamed silently down my cheeks, along with a few shaky breaths. My H sobbed a little harder; I wrapped my arms around him and felt his stomach pulse rapidly with sobs. We kissed away each other's tears at the end, and then we went upstairs and had sex.

My favorite part of all of this was that it was very deliberate. H and I were on the same page: we were making ourselves cry as part of our sex life. I still can't quite believe he's willing to do this.

Relatedly, I cried briefly a couple of weeks ago (don't even remember why), and H told me he now gets aroused by my tears! He thinks it's because he knows I will be aroused, and that we always have great sex after one or both of us cries, but that response of arousal has actually become natural for him when I cry! I cannot quite believe that either...

Crying Videos » "This Is Tears": All the male "This Is Us" crying scenes! » June 20, 2018 1:57 am

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I LOVE Randall's crying scenes. And I'm also definitely waiting for a breakdown from Jack - I bet we'll see one next season.

Crying Discussion » Crying database idea » June 9, 2018 1:49 pm

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This is an excellent idea!

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