I'm discovering these days it seems that as well as crying I'm also drawn to, hmm...I guess you could call it vulnerability, weakness, and/or shame. For example, I'm finding its endearing to me if an already moderately attractive guy (mainly guy, guess it could apply to a girl sometimes as well) is struggling with :
-Some kind of addiction
-self injurous behavior
Realizing this kind of stuff makes me want someone kind of makes me feel bad, like some of this can be awful stuff and here I am getting excited about it? That seems even worse than enjoying crying.
Can anyone relate? Am I horrible? lol
Maybe it's because all these things make someone more likely to cry? Ha