I also have noticed a few very active posters not posting anything anymore. It could be life has just been too much (I know I have only checked the board once or twice during certain periods in my life), or perhaps they stopped enjoying it. They may also have met someone who fulfills their desires and fetishes, and may not currently need the board. They may still come on and check, who knows? I know I am not leaving anytime soon, and like caircair said - I wish people would post more, too! Especially videos!
White Tulip - I myself am not asexual, I am married to a wonderfully emotional man, but my enjoyment of men crying is purely from a comforting perspective, more emotional, than sexual. I do not enjoy seeing people in pain, but my mom instinct is more of comfort than "ooh - let me see you cry!" LOL...As for what Ilike - it is mostly men crying - predominantly white (not a racial thing - just what I prefer...) actors in TV shows and movies. If it happens in real life - I am the first one there for comfort...and usually male and female friends come to me first - since they know I am an empath, and quite the mother figure. I don't know how or why this started, but I have enjoyed this from as far back as I can remember, and I am 42. This board really fulfills my need for seeing scenes and actors, and gives me some really good videos to play over and over again. I know I am not going anywhere anytime soon!