1 - Bartlebycs
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I found this place while doing a search of 'crying fetishis'. Didn't think there was actually a group for it! Glad to know I'm not a freak after all. 
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Welcome!! I'm so glad you found us! What types of crying are you into?
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I'm not sure what the technical term is... full-on crying? Like, tears rolling down the cheeks and lips curled sobbing?
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You sir (or madam) have great taste :D
What's your sex and are you into male or female crying (or both)?
Ugly crying is pretty crying
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I'm a guy. Age 30. I prefer women crying. Guys crying make me uncomfortable, honestly. No idea why...
<----- Strangely enough, it can be animated crying that gets me on, too. I'm weird like that 
I think it's the fact that I'm so unemotional myself, seing a woman cry actually affects me so much, mentally. Like I wanna help her, share her pain, but I'm also a little aroused. Until recently I thought I was one of those freaky people so I always kept it to myself. I'm really glad I'm not alone!
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Sweet. If you have any good observations don't hesitate to share it with us.
Ugly crying is pretty crying
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TorNorth wrote:
Sweet. If you have any good observations don't hesitate to share it with us.
I'm scared of doing that, to be honest. I feel like I'd be violating their privacy if someone came crying to me and I posted it on here 
Sorry ...Not that I know anyone, anyway. I get all my crying pleasure online ;)
<--- *is a bit of a shut-in* LOL
I'm mostly just here to meet others like me I'll probably be hanging out in the Lounge alot, with the occasional pop-in here to comment or relate, whatevs.
Thanks for the warm welcome, though!
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Welcome, Bartlebycs!
I relate to what you're saying about wanting to help a person and share their pain (yet also feel a little aroused about it). I don't consider myself unemotional when it comes to my own life, but I do feel that, in situations that don't involve me in a direct kind of way, I am a bit more "detached" from the feelings of other people than the average person, maybe? A slight deficiency in empathy, maybe? (covered up by lots and lots of sympathy?) So I tend to think the fetish helps fill the gap as it gives me a chance to feel empathetic (because crying is such a dramatic thing) and the rush of emotions arouses me. Well, I describe my fetish in different ways on different days, haha... I have other ways of describing it that are much more simple (like, I simply like to see vulnerability in a man... probably a little too much!) ;)
Do you have any other fetishes besides crying? A lot of people on this board have more than one kink.
I think it's the fact that I'm so unemotional myself, seing a woman cry actually affects me so much, mentally. Like I wanna help her, share her pain, but I'm also a little aroused.
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Welcome, Bartlebycs!
I relate to what you're saying about wanting to help a person and share their pain (yet also feel a little aroused about it). I don't consider myself unemotional when it comes to my own life, but I do feel that, in situations that don't involve me in a direct kind of way, I am a bit more "detached" from the feelings of other people than the average person, maybe? A slight deficiency in empathy, maybe? (covered up by lots and lots of sympathy?) So I tend to think the fetish helps fill the gap as it gives me a chance to feel empathetic (because crying is such a dramatic thing) and the rush of emotions arouses me. Well, I describe my fetish in different ways on different days, haha... I have other ways of describing it that are much more simple (like, I simply like to see vulnerability in a man... probably a little too much!) ;)
Do you have any other fetishes besides crying? A lot of people on this board have more than one kink.
Not that I know of, no. And thanks for understanding That's exactly what it's like with me.
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