Gah!! That's amazing! ! I wanna see that movie now! 

So what happened with this guy?  Did you date more?  Did he ever end up indulging your hurt/comfort fetish?  Has anyone indulged your crying fetish before?

I briefly dated two guys who indulged my crying fetish.  Actually, one knew about the fetish and the other didn't, but it didn't seem to matter as far as their cooperation and willingness to play went.  

Although for some reason, I ended up married to a guy who never cries nor wants to cry, so I need to find my fix elsewhere.  A private performance by someone like the actor you described would be a dream come true.  Too bad you can't just hire them for a night like you would a male stripper or escort.  Yes, I'd like to hire a male crier, please.  Yes, I'll take the full breakdown package.  Haha.  

You and me both, guys. You and me both.

And heck, I'd probably BE a hired female crier if I could!

As for what happened with F, we did date casually while he was still in LA. I don't think either of us were looking for something serious at the moment, but we hung out a lot, went to shows and bars, and yes, had sex. One night after too many drinks I got bold and confessed my fetish to him. We had wrapped the film at that point so it wouldn't make work weird (unless we work together again someday...) and I was just thinking how I might not get the chance again. He laughed but was not put off by it. He told me that he was into girls' feet and shoes. (I know, so vanilla right?)  I wanted to try consoling him as foreplay that night but he said he was too drunk.

A few nights later, though, we did, and it was amazing. It ended up happening several times over the course of us hanging out, he would play different "characters" at my request just like a gig. He'd prepare just like he was on set and I would have to wait. I think he liked all the attention and praise he got from me for his acting chops tbh. Other times I would indulge his fetish with foot stuff, wearing very high heeled shoes and other things. The foot stuff didn't turn me on but I didn't mind it, either.

He ended up going to New York to do a play but we stayed friends and text occasionally. I do sometimes hope we'll play again. No one else has really lived up to that since, and he was the first to indulge my fetish.

Awesome that you confessed your fetish, Super-Secret.  I do think there are more reasons to tell than not when it comes to a partner.  Especially one who is into acting and can do a good job of indulging!  Like you said, some people really like the attention and praise they get for their acting chops.  I am going to widen my circle of friends to include more actors for sure.  I don't need a sexual encounter.  I just want to have fun and do exciting things that involve crying men.  Trying on different characters who have something to cry about seems a great "acting game" to me...  

Last edited by Diana (March 30, 2016 7:42 pm)

Ha! A text today to the effect of "I got choked up onstage and my nose started running, I thought of you."

I don't know if I should be flattered, haha.