Welcome aboard Lauren, glad to have you here.

I too get more excited at a stoic person crying. This is why I don't get excited at the thought of children crying, (Thank God)

My favorite crier ever is Robin on How I Met Your Mother, early in the first season she states that she never crys in front of everyone. Over the course of 9 seasons she slowly opens up and breaks down in front of each of her friends, I highly suggest you check out the episode called "Of Course"

Hi everyone,
I have been on this forum for years, but it has been a while since my last posting. i recently went though something of a sexual awaking and mastrbated for the first time ( I am a virgin) . I was always confused about my attraction to crying and did not know if it was sexual, now I know it is not. Comforting someone else crying leaves me feeling warm and fuzzy and good, it shoot waves of pleasure over my whole body, and definitely has a huge draw for me. I will rewatch my favorite crying episode of a certain show untill I can recite the whole thing by heart, I will encourage my friends that it is ok to cry in front of me and secretly hope they will., I find myself thinking about it quite often, but it never leaves me wanting or able to mastrbate. My question for you is, is this normal? Are there others out there who find crying emotionaly stimulating and keep coming back for more, but not in a sexual way? I just want to know what this is if it's not a sex fetish... Is it just a quirk? Is it normal? Is it somethig else? Anyone else have this? I know I can't be the only one, but it will help to hear from others. Thank you!

 I do enjoy comforting crying children, but of course in a non sexual way and in more of an emotional motherly way, It starts being sexual when it is someone close to my own age.

My question is about what happens to me physically when I see someone cry.

Iam a straight female, and a virgin, I have mastrabated once or twice, but it was more on accident than anything else the first time and out of curiosity the second, I have not done it since for religious reasons, and I'm not technially sure it even was full-on mastrabation.

So this crying fetish is my one phyical pleasure, even though I have no sexual attraction to the person I most often have the best obs with.

That being said, when my one friend gets an emotional voice or wet eyes, I get this warm stomach rush and it feels very, very good, sometime my breath gets cut short, sometimes it hits me in the chest, sometimes it radiates down to my stomach and crotch. If I spend too much time thinking about the same incident, it goes away and I won't get that rush to my stomach for several weeks at a time. Then another emotional incident will happen and the cycle start all over again.

This was as far as it had ever gone, until a while ago, I got a text in which my friend admitted they had been crying, and while I was trying to help her out with her problem over text (comforting is a big part of the turn on). My entire body heated up like a furnace and I was in a state of euphoria, it only lasted 30 seconds or so, but it was one of the best feelings Iv'e had in a long time.

I feel like there is something missing, like there is something that comes next after my body heats up, but I havn't experienced it yet becuase I have not had the crying ob I have been waiting for for so long. Has anyone ever experienced this ?




 

Iv'e never had a problem with cotacts getting washed out, if was going to cry for a good long time, alone, the glasses would come off, also as a way to kind of block everything out becuase the blurred vision would help create a kind of personal bubble.