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Crying Discussion » Makeup or clear tears » April 5, 2021 5:33 pm

I'm okay with either, but I definitely like the streaked makeup look. There's something about it that just makes me flush, and I don't know what it is. Maybe it's because it's more obvious that way that the person was crying?

Crying Discussion » Guilt Over Being a Dacryphile » December 3, 2020 9:30 pm

Long story short, I had a very brief obs today that made me feel awful. Normally, I don't have too big of a problem with this side of myself, but every now and again this overwhelming sense of guilt and shame just hits me and I feel really gross. I mean, I am literally attracted to a person's distress and vulnerability! And the sight and sound of my partner sobbing into a tissue is going to be burned into my memory forever! They don't like being emotionally vulnerable like that, and I don't blame them, but I at least want to be able to support them. Sometimes I worry that part of the reason they hate crying in front of me is because I'm a dacryphile and they know it. I would never judge someone for being emotionally vulnerable, and I want to be available to them if they need a shoulder to cry on. But no, the one person for whom I did fill that role left in July, and now I'm just left feeling guilty and gross for wanting to hold my crying partner.

Am I the only one who feels guilty over being a dacryphile? Does this make any sense at all? I just feel so gross right now.

Crying Discussion » New and I want people to watch me cry » October 22, 2020 4:07 am

PittyParty wrote:

What kind of crying are you guys into?

Audible sobbing, visible shaking, and definite use of tissues or a handkerchief, both for wiping their eyes and blowing their nose. Also, if there are multiple people there, I love when someone beautiful collapses into someone else's arms/shoulder and sobs.
 

Crying Discussion » Brief Partner Obs » September 19, 2020 5:14 am

So, I live with my partner, who is both an extreme extrovert and an observant Jew. This is relevant because the Jewish High Holidays started tonight, and rather than being able to celebrate in person with friends, we're stuck in quarantine for obvious reasons. I guess that combined with other news today brought them to a breaking point and they started crying in the kitchen.

I didn't catch the full scene, but what I did see involved their eyes glistening, though no tears fell, their voice breaking in conversation, and them using paper towels to hastily wipe at their eyes and blow their nose with their distinctive honk. No sobbing, and no touch happened, but I definitely appreciated the sight for what it was, even if I primarily wanted to support my partner. They said there wasn't anything I could do, so I accepted it. And that's the obs! I'm definitely feeling mixed emotions now, and I'm sure they understand.

Crying Discussion » Videos/Photos: The Holy Grails » August 20, 2020 7:49 pm

Does anyone have the classic Tracks of Tears video? The one of the red-haired woman crying and not remembering that she had her webcam on during it? That was one of my favorites that always gets taken down.

Crying Discussion » implausible crying fantasies » August 15, 2020 5:23 am

Mine mostly involve me witnessing one of my crushes or partners breaking down in tears. I'd ideally like to hold them as they sob, and then provide tissues or a handkerchief for them to wipe their eyes/blow their nose. This process could be repeated multiple times over the course of a conversation, too. Or, if it's in a group setting, I might like the person to hold my hand as they start to cry, and at a certain point, they break down and start sobbing into my shoulder or chest. Ugh, I wish that would happen!!

Crying Discussion » Family mini obs » August 15, 2020 4:26 am

Agh, this one hurts! I have no idea how I would've handled this! This sounds like a lot of the criers really hit some of my major focal points, and that might've made it hard to concentrate on what I was really there for.

Crying Discussion » The "self-service" thread » August 14, 2020 1:31 am

1. The only times I do it are when I'm watching one of the many crying videos in my Watch Later collection on YouTube.
2. I don't really do either, but I do think about my various crying obs pretty often.
3/4. I can't really answer these for their intended purpose, but I will say I go back to my recent ex's frequent outpourings of tears pretty regularly these days. Also that girl from my therapy group last year and my ex-crush from the a cappella group I used to sing in. Those obs were all spectacular.
 

Crying Discussion » More Self-Obs » July 27, 2020 5:44 pm

Amans lacrimae wrote:

Was it over the phone or in person? How did she react?

It was just via written chat. She seemed understanding. She feels bad about breaking my heart, but she still very much cares about me and wants to end up as close friends. I told her that I would like that, but I still need more time to heal first.
 

Introduce Yourself » Hi I'm Sunspot » July 27, 2020 5:16 pm

Welcome, Sunspot! After hearing about you all these years, it's nice to finally "meet" you. I'm glad we were able to help you and Truffle with your relationship, and I hope you make yourself at home here.

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