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Introduce Yourself » Hi I'm Sunspot » July 27, 2020 12:17 am

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Welcome aboard! We've heard nothing but good things from Truffle.

Crying Discussion » Similarities between laughter and crying » July 21, 2020 9:27 pm

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I should add, my ex gf loved having her tummy tickled. Sometimes the sound of her laughter was very much like sobbing.

Crying Discussion » Similarities between laughter and crying » July 21, 2020 9:24 pm

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Not unusual at all. I've often noticed that how someone laughs is also how they cry.

Crying Discussion » What do you feel when seeing someone cry? » July 19, 2020 8:26 pm

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Sometimes it's anticipation, sometimes it's arousal, sometimes it's butterflies or a combination of all three.

I remember in 8th grade math class once, the girl in front of me, who was my friend, was stressed by her class load and began tearing up and sniffling. I felt my face flush and get hot and hoped no one noticed.

I will note that the effect is stronger if someone vocalizes that they're about to cry or something to that effect. Like my one friend who likes to cry sitting in my lap, she often warns me when she's emotionally shaky, "be careful. If you hug me, I'll cry."

Crying Discussion » Two Female Friend Comforting Obs, One with Empathic Tears » July 19, 2020 1:08 am

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Even people who aren't dacryphiles seem to recognize the concept of comfort arousal, I think.

Crying Discussion » Two Female Friend Comforting Obs, One with Empathic Tears » July 17, 2020 12:47 am

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Amans lacrimae wrote:

Nice obs NeedHerSobs, I noticed that on both obs the girl's tears landed on your arms, on the first one snot was the plushttps://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/happy.png
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What surprised me was that you shed tears as well, did you notice if the girl you nuzzled your tears into felt it? Did she react when you nuzzled your tears into her face?

Thank you for sharing these lovely obs.

 
She may have but she didn't comment much on it. I think I just said that it's nicer to be consoled together, and she agreed. It's quite rare for me to cry in front of others though. Not out of embarrassment so much as emotional distraction.

Crying Discussion » Two Female Friend Comforting Obs, One with Empathic Tears » July 16, 2020 10:55 pm

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I'll break these down into the individual obs. They happened last month.

1. At a friend's apartment after we had gone out swimming at a lake to try and break her blues. On the drive back, she started to feel emotional again, feeling guilty over failed relationships and lost friends.

We got back to her place and were sitting on her bed, talking as her voice gradually got more and more choked up. I asked her if she'd like to cry on me and she nodded yes. We lay down together facing each other on our sides in a hug, with her face resting on my upper arm.

She's rather a forceful, inelegant crier when she lets loose, and this time was no exception - loud, high pitched wailing sobs that made her belly roll and shook her whole body along with mine and the entire bed. It got a little gross as my sleeve where she was crying on got wet with tears and snot. As she started to calm down I joked with her about it and she apologized for being an ugly crier and reached for tissues to clean myself and her up, though I told her she was welcome to at any time.

2. Another friend called me to come over one night a couple weeks back, saying she was struggling emotionally and feeling like she needed shelter with someone. I myself had been feeling rather depressed that night and so agreed to join her in venting.

We sat down together on her bed, and she asked if she could lean back on me. I opened my legs and let her lean back into my lap. As she did I nuzzled my cheek against hers and occasionally kissed the side and back of her head. She folded my arms around her and held my hands in place against her body with her own.

I could feel the drippings of her tears on my right arm, and kept feeling her body tense up against me with suppressed sobbing, and then her chest hitching and writhing with rapid shallow breaths.

As she wept, I felt my own tears coming and soon was quite wet eyes and sniffly, as I felt a feeling of shared grief with her. Since my hands were tight against her

Introduce Yourself » A little about me :) » July 14, 2020 11:28 pm

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Welcome aboard! We're always happy to have new people. I'm sorry to hear about how you've been repressed, but everyone here is very accepting.

Crying Discussion » Female Friend, Very Emotional Crying and Comforting » June 23, 2020 1:33 am

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I won't lie, it's definitely an odd intimacy we have. But I'm glad it helps her.

Crying Discussion » lots of self-obs over the past few months » June 23, 2020 1:33 am

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So sorry to hear about all your troubles. Hoping very much that your situation improves and the cloud starts lifting soon. Bear hugs.

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