As a kid, I was turned on by the sight of both boys and girls crying with their lip curled. As an adult this has subsided. I also have no sexual attraction towards men, though if a fairly feminine looking man was to lip curl, I'd be turned on a bit by that without actually feeling much attraction towards the man himself.

It's strange to think that I found a sexual attraction to crying even before I came to realise that girls are attractive, though I did always prefer to see girls cry than boys. I think it all changed during puberty, when I actually started fantasising about sex with crying girls and women. Boys were suddenly left out. One thing I would say is that the boys often did a bigger and better lip curl. When they cried they cried hard, whereas many girls tried to pretty cry even from a young age.

There was a kid in my friend circle who always did an enormous lip curl. Sounds sadistic, but I was always on the lookout for him to get hurt during games so that he would cry,

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Not sure if anyone else deals with this. I am bi, though you wouldn't know it from seeing me post here. Why? Because my fetish only applies to men. I think it's because I am sexually attracted to women, but there is no taboo surrounding women crying or being vulnerable. With men, needless to say there is.

Honestly, when I see women cry, whether or not I find them attractive, I feel sad myself and feel their pain too much. With attractive men I might feel bad for them, but my own emotions are clouded by how hot I find it. (It's the same in TV and movies. If a female character cries I am far more likely to cry, too, but if it's a hot guy I just get fetishy! Lol.) And when men I don't find attractive cry... well, if it's a serious reason I feel bad for them but feel extremely uncomfortable, and if it's a dumb reason I feel downright annoyed. I don't show it, but I feel that way.

Wow!. ...yeah. these 2 paragraphs, I feel pretty much exactly the same way. It's weird, I was just thinking about this topic lately myself.

Ive experienced attraction to both males and females but the crying thing is,  I'd say 90% applicable to attractive males. Maybe 10% of the time I feel drawn to crying women, and even then it has to be very specific circumstances. 

Thinking back, I'd say in the past I was most drawn to a crying individual of the gender that I was most attracted to at the time. (It varied by my age).

But since teenage years I think,  it's almost exclusively male. (Off the top of my head i can only think of one exception in adulthood )

Last edited by Ella (April 27, 2016 7:28 pm)

Interesting thoughts, Truffle. Aside from acting, I have not seen many men cry. I am only 23 and until last year I'd had the same boyfriend since high school, who I only saw cry twice in 4 years. Once was an emotionally charged sentimental moment, which I liked, but the other was such a serious moment that as you said, it was too stressful to turn me on. I wanted to cry too at that moment, but stopped myself because I didn't want to take the focus off him when he almost never cried and I did more often.

I have been sexual with women but I have never had a real girlfriend. More and more recently I fantasize about dating a woman so that we can have such moments together, as well as physical and sexual experiences. But at the same time I feel so addicted to male crying that it would be hard to let it go. It IS frustrating to like male crying, you are correct in your assumption there!

Sometimes I even fantasize about the more attractive of my gay male friends (in this biz you make a lot of them!) crying in front of me or on me. Like all the benefit but no strings attached. But this has also never happened.

Sorry if this post sounded weird and disjointed, I have had a few drinks tonight. : /

I'm attracted to men sexually and definitely prefer good male cry but I still enjoy a female cry.