Those who've confessed their fetish to people, have they ever used that knowledge to tease you, kid you, or try to seduce you with it?

I got a text from a friend last night, in which she said, "I'm sobbing right now? Can you come right over?" Said friend did NOT know about my fetish, but I found it hilariously apt that's she would beckon me to visit that way.

In other cases, it's more blatant. Such as with another woman who keeps me on her short list whenever she's had a particularly rough day and needs tearful comfort sex.

 Or the time I took another close friend on a strenuous hike, and near the end she sat down on a rock, completely winded, and said "you're just trying to break my spirit and make me cry, aren't you?" I just said, "that's hot," and she giggled. 

Idk whether I find it sexier when she's aware or not aware. Awareness of it means that it's probably turning her on, too, or at least that she's willing to share it with me in a way that she knows will get me hot under the collar. On the other hand, lack of awareness means she has no idea what she's doing to me, and it almost becomes like a taste of forbidden fruit that she's giving without knowledge.