Welcome, Jez. I'm yet another gal obsessed with male crying (since as long as I can remember, definitely since puberty). I'm also not a huge fan of crying in real life (uncomfortable), but LOVE it in movies/TV/theater.
Climbing to a high chamber in a well of houses, he threw himself down in his clothes on a neglected bed, and its pillow was wet with wasted tears. -- A Tale of Two Cities