Yeah Snot is gross, I never really noticed about the mouth before, thats interesting. I like when the person is trying not to cry, their voice breaks, and then they start tearing up even though they don't want to. The fact that they trust me tp see it is what gets to me. I guess I never thought about how many tears or if they run or not. I don't care for loud sniffing though, ew.  And the hand waving thing always seems like a way to get everyone to notice that your crying, which is why the girly girls do it so much. I don't really care for it becuase it's not really helping anything anyway.

I love nose blowing, but prefer to not see snot shown on tissue's, the tinniest bit is ok but anything more grosses me out.

I agree with a lot of other people.  Snot is a turnoff.  Also an overly twisted face, especially if it's asymmetrical.

caircair wrote:

I'm more a fan of "acted" crying - movies, TV, etc. rather than real life.  "Dry" crying really bugs me.  I want to see some TEARS, dammit!  Too often I find myself being pulled into "analytical" mode - "he's faking it, there's too much sobbing and no tears" - so I can't fully enjoy the experience.

Yeah I want to see tears too. Another annoying thing is when you can see tears in the eyes but for some reason they don't fall!!. I can be watching an actress for five minutes with tear filled eyes and nothing comes out