Congrats, that's great news!

thanks guys, some men are very ok with it but this guy was because he's very open minded, he's an artist..

psychic_girl wrote:

thanks guys, some men are very ok with it but this guy was because he's very open minded, he's an artist..

Fantastic psychic_girl, really glad he understood - I tend to find the majority of guys are ok with their wife's, partners, girlfriends crying - a few can't handle it but most will comfort a crying female. And I think most guys (perhaps very deep down!) will eventully be ok crying 1-2-1 with their other half if something very upseting occurs. They may not talk about it much afterwards mind you.

Based on this I also think guys will generally be ok with a woman having a comforting 'fetish' - guys generally see women as being more in touch with their emotions and feelings so it does not come as much of a surprise to them.
 

I think people with kinks are much more likely to be accepting of someone else's kink.  I love that he 'gets it'.  That's awesome.  I think when you 'get' it, you can respect it -- even if it isn't your own kink.   Not everybody gets it -- that's the problem (see YouTube hate comments and so forth).  It's such a foreign concept to some people.  But it wouldn't surprise me if artistic types in particular have the sort of depth of imagination that helps them relate to a crying fetish even if they don't have it themselves. 

I don't think my husband could ever understand.I don't think he'd be able to separate the idea of my Enjoying his tears from the idea that I enjoy his being in pain.