It's not upsetting to watch at all oddly enough.it's bizarrely fascinating like contemplating one's own belly button.I know so not a sexy image. But it's actually kind of cathartic when I watch it.tears are often so fleeting abd then they're gone. Preserving then felt kind of validating.

Last edited by inmyarms (December 17, 2013 11:28 pm)

tearhunter wrote:

inmyarms wrote:

Tear Hunter a couple of weeks ago I posted a self obs where I described in some detail a rather long crying video I took off myself. It's probably on the second or third page by now but you might like it
http://cryinglovers.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=552

I don't remember seeing this thread - wow!! - to know this video exists is quite painful actually - I so wish I could see it but obviously I too respect your privacy completely. It sounds so completely raw it must be amazing and probably quite upsetting to watch.

In my experience you don't have to be attracted to someone to recognise that they are attractive when they cry. Different people are attracted to tall / short, big / small people so there is always someone who will find you attractive regardless of what you think - I don't know if you are attractive to me but I know plenty of larger attractive women so you never know.

I remember a women at my old work - I did not find her particularly attractive - but I saw her cry one day and she shed the most amazing tears. Her eyes look stunning - they changed colour to a light blue, her unchecked tears rolled slowly down her cheek and down her neck - I was surprised at how turned on I was.
 

 I dint mean being attracted to someone per se. But just like certain size people dint look greatnin certain styles of clothing I sometimes feel like this kind of thing might not look at nice on me as on someone else.When I do the calm pretty cry maybe, but when my face is all scrunched up I don't know.then again maybe it's not an issue.