Maybe little bit, but not particularly much. My crying fantasies depend more on how attractive I find them in the first place. Though it is easier to imagine someone crying the way I like if I haven't seen them cry before. The only problem there is that when they do cry, it's a little disappointing.

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Last edited by TorNorth (November 5, 2011 6:51 pm)

I remember you... welcome back!! 

I like both situations.  The person who never ever cries suddenly crying in front of me concept is beyond hot, for sure.  But so is the person that I can tip over the edge myself.  Not in a power-hungry way, but just that I can reasonably anticipate things going my way.  I guess the one downside to the person who never cries suddenly crying is that it's probably a one-time thing and I'd know that this was probably going to be the ONLY time I'd ever see them cry.  It would be sooo hot in that moment, but such a short moment.  Whereas the tip-over-the-edge type of person could be used for multiple, lengthy fantasies... but anyway, I am over-analyzing.  I completely get what your'e saying.  In my real life, EVERYONE falls into the category of being stoic... every male, anyway... and thinking of them breaking down is super hot and drives me insane.  Thinking about an actor who kind of cries a bit too much, like, always pushing the scene beyond what it needs to be, almost indulgent in it?  Yeah, not nearly as hot.  Because he wants it.  I don't want them to want it.  That's what makes the stoic situation so hot.  I want them to come to me helpless... like it kills them to cry in front of me, but they've decided they've gotta do it anyway because they can't think of any other way to deal with the situation.  That's what I want.  And for them to be a changed after that experience, like now they can cry in front of me.  Which I guess changes their "stoic" status, hmm.  Put it this way... I guess I want a stoic who I can have the opportunity to break in and change into a crier.  But he still remains stoic in front of everyone else... he just cries in front of me... a lot.

I must admit seeing someone cry for the first time is amazing hot!

There have been times when I have had to try very hard to keep my fetish from being discovered (or at least suspected) when witnessing women crying for the first time.
Don't get me wrong I love to see the same person cry over and over again - don't think I'll ever grow tired of my wife's tears, but watching that first tear fall down an attractive female cheek is knee trembling!

I remember seeing a work colleague cry for the first time - she cried just the way I like - unchecked tears rolling down her face. I was holding a cup of water at the time and I became aware that my hands where trembling with excitement - I had to put the cup down so as not to be noticed.

Seeing people cry who don't usually cry is also a turn on for me. One of my friends sister cries very very rarely - probably only a handful of times in her adult life (she is in her mid thirties) - she did not even cry at her father's funeral.
But after a particularly boozy night we where talking and she brought up the subject of her father - she was pretty drunk at this point - as she spoke her voice broke and a single tear rolled down each cheek.
It was only one tear from each eye - and she did not even appear to notice as the tears rolled all the way down to her neck. I so very nearly (being a little drunk also) reached forward to brush her tears away - which would have been a bit inapproriate! I should also point out she is very attractive - stunning blue eyes!

This is totally me!  I've always prided myself on being able to control my emotions (and I'm a girl - rarer for us) and not crying in front of other people, and I try to suppress it when I get close to it.  In circumstances where I have wound up crying in front of someone, even after trying to fight it off, it is usually someone I've known for years who has been emotionally intimate with me and is frustrated that I have not fully "let them in" - so it seems to have magnified importance when it happens.  I have been confronted in a few different circumstances by people who are otherwise very close to me, because I haven't let myself cry in front of them and still hold them at arm's length.  That always feels like a very exciting, but also terrifying, confrontation for me, because it might push me in the direction of crying and being seen in that vulnerable moment by someone who won't let me run away. 

When it does happen the first time (based on only a few experiences, because it's not like it's happened with a lot of people!), I have generally felt extremely fragile, sensitive, and vulnerable for awhile after the fact, and I sometimes try to erect the defenses again, but if that person doesn't let me, it's not usually just a one-time occurrence.  It's like once the floodgates are open, it becomes harder for me to hide emotionally from that person, even though it never seems to affect my general "non-crier" reality with others! 

I have been told in a couple of cases where I let things happen that I was "beautiful" when I cried (which completely shocked me, as I think I look awful), and sometimes the emotional intimacy has ultimately led to sexual intimacy, so I seem to connect the two somehow.  It definitely takes on a sexual excitement for me when I feel that exposed, though my fear is that I'm anything but "hot" at those moments.  It's illuminating to see here that people actually have fetishes for crying in similar types of circumstances!

Growing up, I used to prefer crying fantasies about people who are less likely to cry.  To this day, I'm much more aroused by male than female crying, despite being pansexual--probably because society judges men who cry, making it feel more intimate, which is a huge thing for me.  

Nowadays, my boyfriend is pretty much the only person I have crying fantasies about.  Usually I just steal whatever situation I read or watched most recently and throw him and I into it, or make up my own if nothing comes to mind.  However, I love when he tries to hide it or fight it in my fantasy, but my comfort and acceptance just cause him to give in.  Of course, part of the appeal might be that he's never cried to me before in a manner that was visible (he has sobbed to me over the phone and I'm pretty sure he's shed a tear or two in the dark beside me, though we never acknowleded it).  I'll definitely still enjoy the fantasies after it happens, but I'm looking forward to it in a way, so the fantasies sort of tide me over.