Gender: woman
Orientation: bisexual, in a long term relationship with a man
Age: 26
Location: Hudson Valley, New York

Interested in: primarily male crying, though a really spectacular woman is great too. Combination of emotional and sexual interest-- I like comforting and being trusted, but there's a sexual element to it. Crying (verbal descriptions, images, audio, replaying it all in my head during sex) is the only thing I can get off to, and it's been a lifelong, presexual thing for me. Not turned on by my own tears.

I've also been feeling more guilty about using other people's pain (e.g. personal youtube videos, etc.) for my pleasure without their consent, so I'm mostly using stock photos and footage, as well as clearly artsy selfies, as my erotic material these days. Some of it is surprisingly decent, I've been thinking about making a masterpost sometime. 

Interest in the forum: Mostly discussions and observations. I have dropped off in a big way since I moved in with my partner three years ago, but I'm trying to be more active again. 

My own crying: I cry really sporadically; it's very hard to give an average of how often I do it. Sometimes twice in a week, sometimes I go months without. It's very much a comfort-seeking thing for me, I can hardly ever bring myself to tears when I'm alone. I've never taken pictures-- hard to remember and I'm a terrible photographer at the best of times-- but I might consider it at some point. I make pretty pitiful noises. 

Other kinks: I discovered about a year ago that I enjoy a light d/s dynamic at times (I'm a sub). Still kind of in the exploratory phase of that. 

About me: I'm applying to grad school for social work this year. I'm very likely going to be engaged in the next few months. I've been vegan for five years. I occasionally write star wars fanfiction.