Welcome Princess Lucky, glad you decided to start sharing, I would like to get to know you better (if you feel comfortable)
How often do you cry (average):

How intense do you cry:

Reaction to tears:

How long does your average crying fit last:

Cry alone, someone you trust, don’t mind crying in public:

Do you like to cry:

Do you like to be comforted when crying, how:

--How often do you cry?
on average 1-2x a month. ( sometimes a little more sometimes a little less).

--How intense do you cry?
Usually pretty intense. Starting off pretty quiet but gradually getting louder. Unless it's crying from a movie then it's just silent tears.

--Reaction to tears?
If it's my own emotional tears I usually try to hide my face and muffle my sobs if anyone else is around. Kind of uncomfortable by tears in my family (mother, father etc) but get super excited if it's a close friend or my husband because I love to be able to comfort them. Especially my husband who never cries because it's just beautiful to see him so open and vulnerable.

--How long does your average crying fit last?
5-10 min.

--Cry alone, someone you trust, don't mind crying in public?
I prefer to cry alone or with my husband (unless he is the reason I'm crying). Absolutely hate crying in public.

--Do you like to cry?
I dislike my own emotional crying because I'm usually to busy dealing with the pain of the situation rather than enjoying my tears. But sometimes if I'm in a mood I will turn on a sad song/movie and let myself cry. Those tears I can enjoy because it's simply the tears not the emotion behind them.

--Do you like to be comforted when crying, how?
I only like to be comforted by my husband and  two close friends (all male). I've never had my tears wiped but would think of it as a wonderful experience. My husband lets me put my head on his shoulder or on his chest and sometimes he hugs me.

I'll post the obs when I have more free time. Yes I hide my tears from my husband and friends. I'm kind of embarrassed about crying in front of anyone (and I know I shouldn't be, but I think it's mainly a self confidence thing). I wish my husband would wipe my tears (but I'm not very good at voicing my wants/needs to ask for it). Your wife is very lucky Amans lacrimae.

I see, wow eleven years with your husband and still he hasn’t wiped your tears, I know it’s not an easy subject, based on experience I’ll give you a hint, sometimes when my wife is crying and I allow her tears to flow unchecked, she has taken my hand and pressed it on her cheek, I definitely feel her warm tears on my hand. Once there I continue wiping and kissing her tear streaked cheeks.

So, even if you don’t want him to see your tears, you can take one of his hands when you break the hug and bring it to your cheek, guiding it to a tear and slowly sliding it down your tear streak, you can see his reaction, one out of two, either he likes the feeling and continue wiping your tears (at this point you will definitely have to allow him to see your tear streaked face), or he will act as if nothing happened, you will have to understand it is not in his interest to wipe your tears.

Same to you Azutid, if you already found the correct company for you or a good friend you trust, if he doesn’t take the initiative, you can hold hands for a few moments, then guide your hand while still holding his to wipe your tears. That is a very subtle way to hint your need a o have your tears wiped without exposing yourself to rejection.

I've never thought about it that way Amans lacrimae. I'll try that next time and see how it goes. I wish he'd just do it without having to have any signals, but I guess that's just not in his nature.