Crying Lovers / Loooong Time Lurker - Thought I Should Finally Actually Join

**Posted by purposehans** November 10, 2019 5:52 am

So I've been a lurker for forever - like I was on the old forum. Never actually registered (I think I may have had a profile back on the old forum?). Thought maybe it was time to join and actually contribute for once lol

Sex: Male
Orientation: Straight
Age: 28
Location: USA
Interested in: Women crying, all sorts, though either clearly visible tears or heavy sobbing. Public crying is good.
Interest in the forum: Videos, primarily, though images can be good too
Your own crying: I don't actually cry myself
Other fetishes: Anything involving genuine, raw emotion, also anything in public that feels spontaneous (people masturbating in public but not in a "staged for porn" kinda way)
Yourself in general: I'm in an open relationship with a girl who is fairly emotional; I tend to date people who have serious mental health issues out of my attraction towards emotion. Right now I'm working a job that has me traveling the US & I get to see a lot of places; meet a lot of people. However, as a manager who supervises a lot of people, I often have people who report to me cry, and it can be challenging to maintain that professional neutrality! I function as an emotional sponge in relationships, almost to the point of losing my own autonomy. Also, fun fact! As a kid I had the interest in crying long before I had any other sexual interests.

**Posted by Dacrypticphile** November 10, 2019 6:24 am

Welcome! Nice to see someone else in an open/polyamorous relationship! I also discovered my interest in crying when I was very young. Some of my earliest memories involve me fixating on tears or crying in some way, even predicting some of my specific interests within crying, as well! I'm asexual, as it turns out, and sometimes I like to joke that my fixation on crying got so big and powerful that it just...ate...the rest of my sexuality until it was the only surviving portion. I still have yet to date someone who cries nearly as much as I do, though, so you've got that going for you, at least!

**Posted by Amans lacrimae** November 11, 2019 12:19 am

Welcome purposehans, I used to be like you, I don't remember crying since I was five until twentynine, then I cried. I still don't cry often, but I can't say it never happens.

I am also in a position where people come crying to me (I won't go into detail). I usually end up hugging and wiping tears from girls' cheeks.

Mind sharing an obs of your girl?

Have a great week.

**Posted by NeedHerSobs** November 11, 2019 12:02 pm

Welcome aboard, Purposehans!