Crying Lovers / Podcast with Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda

**Posted by psychic_girl** January 3, 2023 7:40 am

I don't know if you follow him on youtube but his stories as a clinical psychologist are really amazing. In this podcast from 14:28, he answers an email about a woman who complains she's never seen her husband crying and she asks him if that was normal. He talks about a few fascinating crying instances of his and how he deprogrammed himself an not to cry in his teenage years and how he reprogrammed to be able too feel emotions and cry again in his later years . He is a great supporter of men crying and then he talks about being liberating for a man to cry spontaneously every time he feels like it . Humberto Castaneda shares his own crying experiences too
https://www.spreaker.com/user/10958640/cheating-worries-crying-men-and-toxic-ga?fbclid=IwAR0K5tBpvzrPHwOv2v7CGuhrdfqGv-TPb4C3TArgUEhEmNgHQkQB8W_ah3M.

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**Posted by psychic_girl** January 3, 2023 7:47 am

This is another interesting podcast in which Kirk Honda talks to another therapist helping him to process his own trauma with someone. The guy called Bob is on the verge of crying throughout the whole podcast but in the last ten minutes of it they both cry and Kirk even mentions crying along with him at some point because he's empathic about his colleague's problems. The discussion is very intimate and special as it shows the bonding between 2 men in a therapy session.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7FMzfv99KDU

Last edited by psychic_girl (January 3, 2023 7:48 am)

**Posted by PhoebeOnThePhone** January 17, 2023 5:40 am

Funny, this podcast has done another episode where they talk about men crying.
Prompted by that knowledge combined with the info here, I just searched 'Psychology in Seattle crying' in apple podcasts and several episodes mention crying in the titles. I plan to listen to them all!

**Posted by psychic_girl** September 13, 2023 8:32 pm

They finally had a video conversation and Kirk Honda got emotional after his friend apologized and hugged him and started crying for a while. There aren't tears shown but his eyes are clearly teary as he wipes his face with a handkerchief.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Mlpv4W3cWOE&t=2673s ( you can watch the whole video to see the context of their discussion , the tearful part is at around 1:03:00) I'm really glad they filmed this as a follow up to their talk about men crying.