Personally, the fanning the face thing drives me nuts. Interesting ideas!

Interesting - I do like to hear a wobbly emotional voice so I'd vote for at one. I also sometimes like a running nose but only when it's clearly tears draining through the tear duct and running down the nasal passages without becoming thick and snot like. I just witness this in my wife (see crying diary) and what she wiped from her nose was the same consistency as tears.

Don't know how it fits in but I also like tears that either drip off the criers chin or roll down their neck and beyond. It's rare to witness but it is such a turn on then I see it. I've probably detailed this on the forum before but I've watched large tears stream down my wife's neck and down between her bare breasts -  Amazing!!  Also while fully clothed she cried hard one time and the collar of her light blue t-shirt was soaked with tears and all down her front where tear splashes - very nice!!

I think there was a thread about laughing instead of sobbing. Most of the time it is a very nervous laughing sound and sometimes it just goes right over into sobbing, from one moment to the next. It is also like the struggle to prevent the tears from falling and prevent the voice from cracking.

I too like the flared nostrils. Not sure if it's due to intensity or not. There's just something sort of appealing about it. 

Loud sobs, and hiccups really get me going.