What is your crush like? Are they a stoic that avoids crying?  Someone that is emotional and cries easily?   Something between those two extremes? 

 

For me it's tears rolling down the face, falling towards the lips or off the cheek.  

That's probably a good thing.  I'm not sure the societal expectation that boys should internalize their emotions, that many of us grew up with, was a healthy thing.  Sure a lot of us turned out just fine, but maybe not all of us did.  There's a reason why historically suicides are higher among men, I believe at least some of those were the men that didn't turn out fine living a life of internalizing their emotions, of having to fight the pains and heartaches of this world alone.   Even the most stoic of us can finally reach a point where it's just too much. 
 

Welcome, and while I haven't been here long myself, I don't think you need to worry about getting kicked.   You'll find that "sexual fetish" may not always be the correct the term around here.  In my time here, I've noticed that dacryphilia  seems to run the gambit from sexual to empathetic to aesthetic and darn near everything in between.   You should fit right in. 

PhoebeOnThePhone wrote:

Sam Elliot sobs softly in the first episode of 1883. Scene starts directly after title sequence.

Ya there are lots of good crying scenes in 1883, both male and female.   And while my fetish is for female crying, I have to admit, the male crying in that show is very good. It's rare to see men portrayed as emotional, we are, after all, taught from a young age to hide our emotions.   Tim McGraw's character sobbing at the start of the second episode and Sam Elliot, both in the first episode and later on(trying to avoid spoilers) are very well done scenes of men who are supposed to be the toughest of the tough being very human.