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reptongeek wrote:

Slightly off topic NeedHerSobs but what is her hair like in length and colour

Medium length and dark brown.

Unfortunately work interfered with the plan, but I'm still invited to the shower. I'll keep my eyes peeled.

So, here's an odd one. A friend of mine is pregnant but keeping it on the QT. She's estranged from her parents but close to her fiance's parents and hosting a family bbq next weekend where she's planning a reveal.

This is where I come in. She is planning to purchase flowers with a card congratulating them on becoming grandparents. Because I have some prior acting experience and a classic Cadillac, I'm to disguise myself as a delivery man for a high end florist, meet with her prior and deliver the bouquet to the reveal party "anonymously" while pretending not to know her or her fiance.

She promised me that it would be a very emotional affair for all involved, and that I would be invited to the friends' reveal party (not in disguise) as well. She pretty much guaranteed me I'll see seeing lots of joyful crying at both events. I'll keep everyone updated if it comes true.

Congrats. It's wonderful to have a partner who understands.

tearhunter wrote:

You didn't say much about your own crying? How often do you cry? Do you remember when you last cried? Do you allow tears to roll down your face?... does this change depending whether you are cry alone or with someone? Sorry, just interested in what other male crying is like! 

I haven't had tears roll down my cheeks in probably a year and a half. I get misty eyed on occasion. I really dislike crying, to be honest, and I usually do it alone and as rarely as possible.