Crying Discussion » A True Comforting Story » May 23, 2016 12:46 am |
inmyarmsagain wrote:
This dacryphilia group on fetlife, does it focus more on the aggressive form of dacryphilia or Luke this, the appreciating the beauty of crying?
Mixture of both, I'd say.
Crying Discussion » The Different Flavors of Crying » May 15, 2016 3:37 am |
I've probably mentioned this on here previously, that I have always thought of a woman's crying as a specific vintage of fine wine, or like a warming glass of my favorite brandy, to be savored tenderly and carefully, being certain to allow every nuance of flavor to permeate my palate and imprint itself on my memory.
I can recall at an instant exactly how every woman cried who has ever shared her tears with me. I can tell you exactly what they sounded like, what their facial expressions were like, how teary they were, how hard they sobbed, what tended to trigger their crying, what worked well to comfort them, the different types of cries that they each had from and what situations would draw them from within their banks of emotions. I can recognize patterns and tendencies, I find myself sometimes grouping specific types of criers by some specific or arbitrary criterion, I can someone even guess and extrapolate the way a woman will cry before I've seen it happen.
How many of you out there are connoisseurs like this? Do you drink deep of your lover's tears? Do you bathe your heart in the bittersweet liquor of their emotions? What nuances of flavor do you notice and love noticing? Are there any very interesting or unique types of crying that you've been fortunate to witness? I'd love to hear other's thoughts on this.
Crying Discussion » So, I've Gotten Someone Else into This » April 20, 2016 6:10 pm |
I think it was a matter of emotional response. She found that she likes crying for me and the feelings that the thought stirs are strong enough to provoke the crying response.
Not too many tears, though. She's more of a dry crier. Alicia, by contrast is quite a bit more teary but not remarkably so. Another lady friend of mine, "Heather," is a fairly dry crier but has a cute sounding cry. She manages to wail softly if such a thing can be imagined.
One I found interesting was the girl I dated senior year of college, "Tara." She was such a wet crier, tears flowing everywhere. My shoulder would be soaked to the bone any time she had a sob session on my arms.
That's something I love about this fetish, the individuality of each woman's cry. Crying is a fine wine, and I mean to taste as many vintages as I can.
Crying Discussion » So, I've Gotten Someone Else into This » April 19, 2016 5:34 pm |
truffle wrote:
If someone like Bethany were to come along in my life, I wouldn't hesitate for a second. Oh the possibilities!
Once, on a cross country trip, I wound up hooking up with a girl in Los Angeles who involuntarily cried whenever she had an orgasm. Maybe I'll have to tell that story some time.
Beyond that, you might be surprised how many things people are willing to try for partners, and how many wind up liking it.
Crying Discussion » Alicia Cried on Me Again Tonight » April 17, 2016 7:41 am |
I wasn't planning on this happening at all. The timing of it was, in fact, a little bit awkward. To the point, she sent me a message on Facebook, expressing some vague distress. I asked if she was okay and all she could answer was "no. no no no." I asked her if she needed me there with her, and she asked me to come over, warning me that she was already a little bit drunk and apologizing for it.
She left the door unlocked for me, and upon entering I saw not a small collection of empty beer cans already on the counter. I found her fiddling with her living room stereo and already in a weird state. I asked her what was wrong. She hugged me tight and said "everything." Stresses had been piling up on her head. Financial complexities, difficulties at work and a feeling of nagging loneliness from not having had a boyfriend for several years. They all hit her hard tonight after the drive home and left her feeling quite a wreck.
I sat down in a chair, and she sat opposite me. We exchanged pleasantries and she asked me to grab her another beer. Upon returning I set it down on a nearby table, and her head sank down to her chest as she began to tell me of her woes. Opening up my arms, I invited her over to my chair. She sat down in my lap, facing me with straddled legs wrapped around me on either side. Her arms closed around me and her head fell onto my left shoulder. I wondered to myself, "is she going to cry on me tonight?" I was answered a few seconds later when I felt her belly begin to shake against me with silent sobs.
I said, "you need to cry on me, don't you?" She nodded a silent, choked assent and began sobbing, not hard or loud, but deeply as her embrace tightened around me. She paused and said to me, "I just can't feel attractive at times. I hate whining about this, but I wonder so often why no one seems to go for me?"
I responded to her, reminding her that I've always thought she was beautiful, not just in face and body, but in soul. Because there were so many
Crying Discussion » So, I've Gotten Someone Else into This » April 17, 2016 12:42 am |
I guess one advantage in my life is my increasing ability to surround myself with people who are on a similar wavelength with me, in one way or another.
One thing to point out. Alicia is my platonic co-worker friend who I've comforted at times. This is a new girl I've met. We'll call her Bethany. Again, not her actual name but related.
Bethany is an internet cam girl who I wound up chatting with. We discovered we lived near each other and one thing led to another. I guess sometimes those "hot local gals want to meet you!" ads turn out to be true.
I hope this doesn't sound like a fish story. I know it all probably seems like way too many happy coincidences to be true, but on my honor, that's exactly how it happened. I wouldn't kid you about something like this.
Crying Discussion » So, I've Gotten Someone Else into This » April 16, 2016 7:56 pm |
To be honest, she doesn't have the most expressive crying face. She just looks generally sad. Not like the anguished face my friend "Alicia" has. You, TorNorth, would have loved the girl I dated for two years in college. She always cried with a big pouty face, with a curled up bottom lip.
With her I hinted at my fetishes a few times but was too reticent to just explain forthright what I wanted. Occasionally during sex a single tear ran down her cheek, but that was it. Looking back, I should have been bolder and more experimental with her about many things. Live and learn.
I don't have a girlfriend right now, but I have a lot of close female friends. Some of whom I hook up with. The interesting thing about the girl that this thread is about is how quickly she picked it up.
It's gotten to the point of being a Pavlov's Dog type response where, after enough orgasms, she needs to break down and cry. I saw her again the other night, and she began to sob during sex. I paused and asked her if she was really crying and she said yes. I asked her why and she said "because I want to. I need to. It feels so good."
We were cuddling afterwards and she said "God it feels amazing to cry for you." I think she was a secret dacryphile who needed to be unlocked.
Crying Discussion » So, I've Gotten Someone Else into This » April 15, 2016 7:46 pm |
Let me preface by saying that I know this board is geared more toward non-sexual dacryphilia, so I hope this post doesn't go beyond anyone's comfort zone.
This concerns an experience I have recently had with a woman whom I've become close to, a friend with benefits basically. It's not my co-worker "Alicia" from my last post, for curious. Anyway, we had discussed in quite a lot of detail the things that turn us on, and she said she really wanted to try something that I was interested in.
I wound up telling her all about my fetish for women crying. I told her how I love the sound of it, how I love the anguished facial expressions, the tears on her cheeks falling onto my shoulders, the feeling of her chest and belly heaving against me, or the way you can feel a woman crying during sex, feeling the muscular tightness and contractions whichever way you go in.
That last part seemed to really catch her interest. In any case, a discussion between the two of us at some later point resulted in her deciding that she needed a good cry in my arms. I invited her to lay down and snuggle with me in bed. She lay her face on my shoulder and cried in fits of hard but stifled silent sobs, as I nuzzled the side of her face. Eventually she looked at me and said "I want to have sex with you while I'm crying."
It was all the cue we needed and within a minute we were all involved. Each orgasm seemed to make her cry harder until she was borderline hysterical and wrapped fully around me with her arms and legs around me and her wet face against my left shoulder. She tried to speak at a few points, but couldn't get more than a word or two out.
I recall the way her sobs felt as if they traveled in rippling waves. Each sob would begin at the top of her belly just below her ribs and flow downward in a smooth, liquid motion, setting her belly undulating against me like a belly dancer's, and then the force of it would roll downward through her mound into her genital region, and tighten and pu
Crying Discussion » A True Comforting Story » March 28, 2016 5:20 pm |
inmyarmsagain wrote:
You said you shared this on anothet site. I'm not aware of any other site for dacryphila.
I shared it in a somewhat briefer form on the dacryphilia group on Fetlife. It got a little attention, but not much.
Crying Discussion » Does this turn anyone else on? » March 24, 2016 3:22 am |
Kleo wrote:
I am same as you, only I am interested in man crying. But, I get what you mean.
What do you suppose it is about it that appeals so much?