I've lived up and down the east coast of the United States. Going to probably settle down in the southeast in a year or two.

What do you need to be there to make male tears 'utterly gorgeous'?

​I've read numerous posts over the years about both your crying and your wife's and it sounds incredible. I love reading how you share your emotions and tears and how it's clearly a sexual thing for you! Find the female to female aspect of crying in your relationship a very beautiful thing.

Your requirements are completely fine with regard to male tears. You are a tear lover like myself and large, flowing tears on a female face do it for me. If that female face has big beautiful eyes, smooth skin then the tears have a stunning canvas on which to flow!

​Male crying is complicated I think - as I mentioned on TorNorth's thread guys tend to have bigger tear ducts. Which means tears that flow onto the surface of the eye drain into the nasal cavity and don't spill out onto the cheeks. Also because of the tear producing hormones being less prevalent in guys and the social conditioning not to cry the emotional moments tend to be shorter - which results in less tear production time to overwhelm the more efficient plumbing!

​But interestingly, I read fairly recently that guy feel like crying almost as often as women do. But, the hormones kick in to initially prevent these feelings taking hold. Older guys tend to cry more when testosterone levels drop in later life. That coupled with the social aspect where guys need to feel ultra safe before they allow tears to flow somewhat reduces the chances of seeing guys openly cry with flowing tears. Even if the tears do fall they more often than not becomes self conscious and wipe the tears away - yeah, makes male tears gold dust really!

​But they most definitely exist... personally, I don't think I have larger tear ducts! It never takes long for my tears to spill over. It's rare for me to just get wet eyes without at least one tear (even if it's small) escaping. Also I think my hormone / chemical make up has changed recently - I can 100% produce more tears now than I ever have been able to do in the past! This means I can't hide the fact that I'm crying anymore - if I get emotional, anyone observing will see it immediately. Over time, it's left pointless wiping tears away - they can see I'm crying - trying to hide the tears will not change that fact.

​That said, I don't like to cry openly in all situation and in front of all types of people. Oddly apart from my Wife I can't cry in front of close family. Friends, people I fully trust will see (and have seen) flowing tears. Medical professionals also hold little crying fear for me these days.

​So, although you say I'm a rare thing (and perhaps I am) most guys have the ability, just beneath the surface to cry with tears spilling down their cheeks. I might go into more detail on another thread sometime soon but I witnessed a guy cry fairly recently - multiple large tears rolling down his cheeks completely unchecked! So, it can happen.

​Anyway, I've hijacked this thread enough - but it's interesting stuff ;o) - one last point - some guys find it difficult to admit they cry! Technically, wet eyes is crying - emotion has caused a physical response, just not enough to generate a flowing tear...  most people regard crying as a tear leaving the eye... so for a guy to wipe a tear from the lower part of this cheek - 100% crying guy!  ;o)