- Rose
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
Yes! I really hate it! It's ok if it's over a sad movie, but not when I'm really sad, rarely ever happens. Makes me feel so vulnerable, naked, weak... I wonder if this is more common among people with dacryphilia?!
- Amans lacrimae
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
Rose wrote:
Yes! I really hate it! It's ok if it's over a sad movie, but not when I'm really sad, rarely ever happens. Makes me feel so vulnerable, naked, weak... I wonder if this is more common among people with dacryphilia?!
Probably, I think it would be kind of logical as we are really conscious of tears, maybe other people don’t give importance or don’t care about tears, so maybe they cry either openly or at least less concerned about crying and/or shedding tears.
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
I rarely cry and if I do I never let anyone see. I would be mortified if I was ever caught
- TearsOfCheese
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
Depends on who's surrounding me. If it was in class, I'd feel extremely embarrassed... If it were somewhere else in public, I'd feel absolutely bad. If it were in front of my close friends, I'd feel safe to the point where I just wanna cuddle after the waterworks done. if it were in front of my family, well, eh, I was raised to not have a weak image, so that'd be counterproductive to what I was taught.
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
I rarely cry and if I do I never let anyone see. I would be mortified if I was ever caught
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
Depends on who's surrounding me. If it was in class, I'd feel extremely embarrassed... If it were somewhere else in public, I'd feel absolutely bad. If it were in front of my close friends, I'd feel safe to the point where I just wanna cuddle after the waterworks done. if it were in front of my family, well, eh, I was raised to not have a weak image, so that'd be counterproductive to what I was taught.
Mind sharing a self obs?
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- TearsOfCheese
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
Depends on who's surrounding me. If it was in class, I'd feel extremely embarrassed... If it were somewhere else in public, I'd feel absolutely bad. If it were in front of my close friends, I'd feel safe to the point where I just wanna cuddle after the waterworks done. if it were in front of my family, well, eh, I was raised to not have a weak image, so that'd be counterproductive to what I was taught.
Mind sharing a self obs?
OBS as in a story where I've cried/witness someone cry?
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Re: Is anyone else terrified of crying in front of others?
Depends on who's surrounding me. If it was in class, I'd feel extremely embarrassed... If it were somewhere else in public, I'd feel absolutely bad. If it were in front of my close friends, I'd feel safe to the point where I just wanna cuddle after the waterworks done. if it were in front of my family, well, eh, I was raised to not have a weak image, so that'd be counterproductive to what I was taught.
Mind sharing a self obs?
OBS as in a story where I've cried/witness someone cry?
Yes