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Angry tears
I was having an argument with my husband a few days ago and partway through my eyes just began to fill up with tears. They slowly began to stream down my face, the right eye first. I was perfectly stoic (no lip curl or any faciaI distortion of any kind really). I let them fall unchecked down my face as I was too mad to bother to wipe them and I didn't care who saw. When the argument was over and neither of us were mad anymore I wiped the remainder of the tears with the back of my right hand.
Personally I dislike angry tears because it makes me feel/appear weak in a moment when you don't want to show any weakness. I think it makes the person you're arguing with take you less seriously. Who else dislikes angry tears?
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Re: Angry tears
If I'm in that argument, I hate it too. It feels manipulative.
Ugly crying is pretty crying
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I have seen my wife cry angry tears, I honestly see her very attractive with tears glistening, I don’t acknowledge them while the argument lasts but once we get to an agreement I kiss and wipe her tear streaks before going for a hug. I guess this didn’t end the same way for you, what was your husband’s reaction when he saw you cry? And when the discussion ended?
Would you allow him to wipe your tears when you got to an agreement?
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Re: Angry tears
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I've personally neither seen nor shed angry tears. I'm not sure how I will react in either case. I do personally like it when there are just tears in the eyes without any facial expression, but if the other person is angry, I might not really focus on the tears. Did you shed a lot of tears? You said you wiped the remainder of your tears. Did you wipe some of your tears before the argument was over? Or did they just dry up on your cheeks?
I only she'd 2 or 3 this time. Usually there are a lot more. But usually the arguments last a bit longer too. I was too mad to really focus on wiping my tears before the argument was over.
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I have seen my wife cry angry tears, I honestly see her very attractive with tears glistening, I don’t acknowledge them while the argument lasts but once we get to an agreement I kiss and wipe her tear streaks before going for a hug. I guess this didn’t end the same way for you, what was your husband’s reaction when he saw you cry? And when the discussion ended?
Would you allow him to wipe your tears when you got to an agreement?
My husband was to mad at the time to really notice the tears (or if he did he didn't mention it). I just wiped my own tears when the argument ended. I would have totally let him wipe my tears when we got to an agreement but he's really not that kind. If he stepped in to do so I wouldn't have stopped him but since he didn't I took it upon myself to handle it.
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You mention you didn’t care who saw, was there anybody else when this happened? If so, how did that person react when you started crying?
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You mention you didn’t care who saw, was there anybody else when this happened? If so, how did that person react when you started crying?
No there was no one else there, but I wouldn't have batted an eye if there was (at the time).
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I don't usually cry happy tears (maybe, once or twice in my life) but ill be sure to post an obs if I ever do.
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