Sex: female

Orientation: hetero (maybe pan?)

Age: not so young anymore

Location: Germany

Interested in: I fell in love with someone who told me right from the start that he is aroused by crying (Teargazer). And I noticed that I like to cry for him, to make him happy. We seek out opportunities that could make me cry, like sentimental movies, or talking about struggles of the past, and we share our feelings. And I noticed that to know that my tears will arouse him will also arouse me, so I feel like I could be something like a second-hand dacryphiliac.

Interest in the forum: I would like to share self observations, and also find recommendations how to cry even more. Regarding the self obs: I do cry often, but most of the time only short. Would it be welcome to post those „minor obs“, too, even if it is only one tear, or some seconds of sobbing, mabe in a thread where I gather all those „minor obs“? Or only the „major outbursts"?

Your own crying: I’m rather emotional, and have just learned that I cry quite often, at least in comparison to other people – at least several times a week. Most of the time, it’s rather short, blurry eyes (hence the name), often with one or two tears, or sometimes sobbing, not always combined with tears. My „strong“ eye is the right one, crying usually starts with my right eye, and there are more tears from my right eye than from my left eye. Also, my nose starts to run after a short while of crying. I don’t wipe my tears, quite the opposite, we (Teargazer and I) try to make them run down my face and under my chin, or dripping onto my shirt. and I’m not ashamed to cry in a public space.

Other fetishes: nope, plain vanilla.

Yourself in general: Minecraft, sci-fi, classical music, social media. The relationship with Teargazer is long distance; we met online and never met in person yet.

Blurry Eyes wrote:

Sex: female

Orientation: hetero (maybe pan?)

Age: not so young anymore

Location: Germany

Interested in: I fell in love with someone who told me right from the start that he is aroused by crying (Teargazer). And I noticed that I like to cry for him, to make him happy. We seek out opportunities that could make me cry, like sentimental movies, or talking about struggles of the past, and we share our feelings. And I noticed that to know that my tears will arouse him will also arouse me, so I feel like I could be something like a second-hand dacryphiliac.

Interest in the forum: I would like to share self observations, and also find recommendations how to cry even more. Regarding the self obs: I do cry often, but most of the time only short. Would it be welcome to post those „minor obs“, too, even if it is only one tear, or some seconds of sobbing, mabe in a thread where I gather all those „minor obs“? Or only the „major outbursts"?

Your own crying: I’m rather emotional, and have just learned that I cry quite often, at least in comparison to other people – at least several times a week. Most of the time, it’s rather short, blurry eyes (hence the name), often with one or two tears, or sometimes sobbing, not always combined with tears. My „strong“ eye is the right one, crying usually starts with my right eye, and there are more tears from my right eye than from my left eye. Also, my nose starts to run after a short while of crying. I don’t wipe my tears, quite the opposite, we (Teargazer and I) try to make them run down my face and under my chin, or dripping onto my shirt. and I’m not ashamed to cry in a public space.

Other fetishes: nope, plain vanilla.

Yourself in general: Minecraft, sci-fi, classical music, social media. The relationship with Teargazer is long distance; we met online and never met in person yet.

Oh, quite a fast response, of course, feel free to post your "minor obs" as well, I guess pandemic didn't help for meeting, is distance really an issue between you (I mean is long distance really long, or is there a chance for meeting relatively soon)

You mention not minding crying in public, have you ever had your tears wiped?

Amans lacrimae wrote:

Oh, quite a fast response, of course, feel free to post your "minor obs" as well, I guess pandemic didn't help for meeting, is distance really an issue between you (I mean is long distance really long, or is there a chance for meeting relatively soon)

You mention not minding crying in public, have you ever had your tears wiped?

I can't remember to ever have my tears wiped, at least not as an adult. My previous partner called it manipulative when I cried (can you believe that?), so you couldn't expect him to wipe my tears. And I don't have friends who are close enough to do that.

I'm fascinated by the idea of strong eyes when it comes to crying. When all of your tears fall down just one cheek and not both