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Yes, confusingly enough! This was my most intense cry of a long time and I really don’t know what made it so special other than the comfort.
I did sob. After all the buildup of that conversation, it was almost a relief. At first they consisted of one vocalized sob followed by a wave of silent ones, then a moment to catch my breath. Then they developed into full sobs. I felt them in my throat and it was like I had to empty it all out.
I did have a lip curl that I was subconsciously hiding. I would’ve suppressed it if I was sitting and crying openly for her, but with my face in the pillow she wouldn’t see it.
I know on this forum it’s appreciated but with a regular person it felt like a lot. It’s been ages since I sobbed enough to get a lip curl, so it was another surprise. It was definitely present tho when I sobbed. I allowed it entirely since I had my face concealed but I think she caught glimpses of it from the side where my face was uncovered at times.
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Hello girl, would you have felt comfortable if your friend wiped your tears, or even kissed your tears while your lips were curling as you sobbed? I don't know why some girls don't mind showing their tears (I don't oppose) but they try to conceal the lip curl. As a female, do you have any idea?
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I wouldn’t have minded with someone close to me like her. I’d have thought it was sweet of her to try and calm me like that. I don’t know if I could sit still while sobbing like that for her to do that though haha, but I’d like to have her try.
Like I mentioned I’m my introduction I’m not a girl so I wouldn’t know how they think lol
I guess there’s more pressure on girls to look attractive and not make big facial expressions in general, but it could also just be an instinct of wanting to put your face in something more for comforts sake when you are more intense which is usually when a lip curl happens.
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I have a friend (AFAB) who told me once she had never felt more comforted than when she leaned her face in my hands and I wiped her tears, she added she felt I wiped her tears with such love and tenderness she felt very soothed and comforted (and comfortable).
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Ah, lucky her. I get her, it’s nice to have someone focus on you like that.
I’m glad she has you to wipe her tears. It’s a very intimate thing to wipe and kiss tears away.
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I’m with you, I kiss my wife’s tears often, mostly in private but I don’t refrain myself from doing it in public when the situation arises. About my friends (all female) I think I wiped one of my friends tears in private, I took her home after a social event and she started crying in my car, I leaned a hand on her knee and started wiping her tears. The rest of my friends have always been in public situations with at least 5-10 people around when I wipe their tears. None of them have ever felt embarrassed for having their tears wiped.
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Daydream wrote:
Yes, confusingly enough! This was my most intense cry of a long time and I really don’t know what made it so special other than the comfort.
I did sob. After all the buildup of that conversation, it was almost a relief. At first they consisted of one vocalized sob followed by a wave of silent ones, then a moment to catch my breath. Then they developed into full sobs. I felt them in my throat and it was like I had to empty it all out.
I did have a lip curl that I was subconsciously hiding. I would’ve suppressed it if I was sitting and crying openly for her, but with my face in the pillow she wouldn’t see it.
I know on this forum it’s appreciated but with a regular person it felt like a lot. It’s been ages since I sobbed enough to get a lip curl, so it was another surprise. It was definitely present tho when I sobbed. I allowed it entirely since I had my face concealed but I think she caught glimpses of it from the side where my face was uncovered at times.
Have you ever made a puddle on a table with your tears? And do you think you could, just by letting your tears fall over a table, sitting on a chair with your head tilted down?