- TorNorth
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Re: Crying Diary
Another one of my wife
Date: 12/03/14
Time: 01:15
Duration: 15 mins
Reason for Crying: Thinking about her grandfather's illness
Location: Home
Crying Intensity: Tears down face
Reation to Tears: Face buried in pillow at first, later wiping a lot with tissues. But there was a lot of tears, I could feel them in the darkness.
Lip curled?: Mild. Once again, felt them in the darkness. My wife almost never allows her crying face to be visible to me, or anyone I know.
People Present: Me
Ugly crying is pretty crying
- inmyarms
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Re: Crying Diary
Sounds beautiful
Tears are the last gift of true love.
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Yellowrose: I understand your reason for crying! It is getting better, promise! Just learn from it and change all the bad things into something positive (maybe not all :-)) and the next time you get a benefit from it. In your job you need some boundary between the hospital and your private life, otherwise you won't survive. Workcolleagues can be cruel and also the job itself needs some "elephant skin". Feel with it (empathy) but don' suffer from it.
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Re: Crying Diary
Date: 3/20/14
Time: didn't check
Duration: 15 mins
Reason for Crying: one of those life sucks moments. If it sucked any worse it would turn inside out with the effort.
Location: Home
Crying Intensity: Tears down face, nose, dripping on my clothes and everywhere else. I seem to be a very leaky critter. Some loud sobbing.
Reation to Tears: had a little tantrum. Pounded my thigh, stomped my feet, then just sat in my office chair, swiveling and crying. My daughter's bus came. I wiped my face with a baby wipe to get all the mascara of everything.ew. got her if the bus, gave her a snack, went back to my room and picked up where I left off.
Lip curled?: at some point I think I had a nice curl going.
People Present: Me
'm baaaaaack
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Tears are the last gift of true love.
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And today again,I won't rewrite because it was very similar to l the last episode.it was sparked by realizing that I losta hundred dollar Amazon card I had been counting on to purchase work supplies.this came on top of a pile of other things and I just had it. Say in the the same swivel chair, spinning/sobbing for a good twenty minutes.
Tears are the last gift of true love.
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Re: Crying Diary
Date: 24 March 2014
Time: 22:00
Duration: 20 minutes
Reason for Crying: Talking with my dad about some personal stuff.
Location: home
Crying Intensity: Tears down face, sobbing for maybe the last couple of minutes
Reaction to Tears: Wiped tears from cheeks with sleeves
Lip curled?: no
People Present: Father via Skype (not being comforting at all), sister (also crying)
- tearhunter
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Re: Crying Diary
A not very intense episode from my wife...
Date: 13 April 2014
Time: 20:15
Duration: 3 mins
Reason for Crying: Frustration - a few things getting on top of her
Location: Home
Crying Intensity: Tears in Eyes only
Reation to Tears: She let her eyes fill with tears but none fell down her cheek - her nose ran however and she had to wipe two tear like drops from her nose with a tissue.
Lip curled?: No - Emotional wobbly voice only
People Present: Me
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Re: Crying Diary
Date: 20. April 2014
Time: 6.45
Duration: 1 min
Reason for Crying: touched by some gentle words of my husband
Location: bed
Crying Intensity: Tears over the bridge of my nose
Reation to Tears: burried the head in the pillow and the husbands shoulder
Lip curled?: No
People Present: my husband
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Re: Crying Diary
Raindance, I've a fair idea of what you're feeling and going through. I was fairly close to all four of my grandparents. Trust me, it will get better. Just takes time. The Lord be with you and your family. Good hard hugs.
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Re: Crying Diary
Wife:
Date: 25/04/14
Time: 1.00 am
Duration: Long time probably, I wasn't present for all of it.
Reason for Crying: Big row with me that hasn't yet been settled
Location: Home
Crying Intensity: Tears down face
Reation to Tears: Wiping with hands at first. Letting them fall for a while later (there was one moment when there was a big track of a large tear drop going down to her chin). Buried face in bed even later.
Lip curled?: When I saw her face, it was virtually expressionless.
People Present: Me, my sister for a short time.
Ugly crying is pretty crying