Still extremely busy at the moment but feeling guilty for not posting a few obs - which I'll do on another thread to provide the detail. However, two relate to my wife so I'll post in the require format here first. Somewhat annoyingly my wife has not cried much at all this year - was beginning to think this thread was a curse!

Date: 25 July 2014
Time: 20:30
Duration: 10 minutes
Reason for Crying: Disappointed and let down by something a friend did - started crying as she talked to me about it.
Location: At Home, Kitchen table.
Crying Intensity: Tears down face, voice emotional and at times on the verge of sobbing
Reaction to Tears: Most ran down her face unchecked, a couple where wiped from her chin
Lip curled?: No, well not really - her mouth wobbled a bit when she was on the verge of sobbing with a very shaky and emotional voice - her mouth twisted a bit as she gasped.
People Present: Husband (Me)

Date: 2 August 2014
Time: 22:00
Duration: 5 minutes
Reason for Crying: A work collegue is seriously ill and is not expected to live more than a few months
Location: Car - driving home
Crying Intensity: Single large tear down her cheek.
Reaction to Tears: Her voice broke as she was telling me about this person and she immediately stopped talking - our daugther was in the back seat. As I look around (I was driving) I could see she was crying quietly - eyes welling with tears. Single tear eventully fell but she wiped it away from her cheek.
Lip curled?: No, my wife can cry very quietly if she does not have to talk.
People Present: Husband (Me), and our Daugther (who was unaware her Mother was crying)

    ate: August 13 2014
Time:  most of the morning and then repeated throughout the day
Duration:   couldn't keep track. Too long. Perhaps a couple of hours.
Reason for Crying: I was supposed to have surgery today. A procedure that is my best chance of regaining my fertility in the next few years. I have hit every possible snag over the course of four years trying to get this done it has been a hellish ride. Today was the day and i woke up with an eye infection. The surgery was cancelled. Dunno til when.
.Location: At Home, bedroom.kitchen, wherever I happened to beCrying Intensity: complete melt down. It was loud, keening, sobbing. Tears dripping all over me.
 Reaction to Tears:  just rolled with it
Lip curled? Yup
People Present: me  

Last edited by inmyarms (August 13, 2014 11:10 pm)

Surgery is currently rescheduled for September 11. After three cancellations in even more nervous than before though.

Date: 30 August 2014
Time: 15:00
Duration: 5 minutes
Reason for Crying: Anniversary of a tragic event
Location: Graveside
Crying Intensity: Tears down face
Reaction to Tears: Let them fall unchecked
Lip Curled: No, but chin wobbled a little bit
People Present: My Wife, who was crying also - next entry!

Date: 26.9.14 and some days before
Time: during the day at different times
Duration: each one minute
People present: me and somebody I was talking to
Tears: single tear down the nose, wiped away
Reason: moving discussion
No lipcurl