Hey Tornorth, don't worry about the dream, nightmare that you had..i don't think it represents something menacing, maybe you're just consumed with the compulsive part of your fetish.
You need to delve deeper into your own subconscious and see what you can find in there. Maybe there are issues concerning nurturing in a relationship, your own mostly. I remember having those kind of dreams where i wish i could heal or appease my partner's pain, a pain that's been inflictied on them ..but they always drifted away from me. This was something that happened for real in my life and the ones that drifted were a source of pain as far as i'm concerned since it had to do with me dealing with it, not with healing others..
A compulsion is an emotional need which derives from poor nurturing on the sentimental level, some people need more then others, and there are those more reavealing in terms of what they share with their partners. I remembered sharing a lot and giving emotionally more then what the other person wanted.
I think that everytime i see a guy cry i want someone to compensate for my own pain and loss..or to have a witness to it , a witness that ''felt'' it..because there's one thing to talk about things on an intimate level and a totally different thing to actually live them..

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