I've noticed here that more people than not have a specific thing about seeing someone otherwise strong/tough/resilient break down. It takes slightly different forms for all of us, but it appears to be very, very common.

It's not a MUST for me. I have one OC (that's original character, for those not fanfiction-oriented) who is just really, really sensitive and cries very easily. Granted he's a strong person in some other ways (deep down, anyhow), but he's definitely not one to keep up a tough facade. But the combination of emotional power and emotional breakdowns is extra intoxicating for me.

For me, it's about emotional power. I like to see boys with a lot of privilege, pretty white ones with money, cry. (I should note here that I myself am white, but I'm not a guy and grew up very poor). I kind of like the archetype of the pretty, charismatic sociopath. He's used to getting what he wants and not really giving a shit who he hurts in the process. When someone or something (hopefully another cute boy, haha) comes along and makes him care, makes him human, he feels new things and is reduced to a childlike mess. He's a snotty crier, the kind of kid-like sobbing that embarrasses people. It's a sharp contrast: someone so charismatic who does not cry in a charismatic way at all. All the manipulation and coolness is gone. He needs a hug. (And yes, I get that an actual clinical sociopath couldn't actually experience this, but that's what fic is for!!)

What about you? How does the combination of power or strength with tears come into play?