1 of 1- truffle
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Fetish fading away
So this is weird. Lately I've been less and less excited when I see someone cry, either in real life or in a video or photograph. My main interest had always been watching tears slowly roll down a woman's cheek. At first I was just losing interest in my wife's tears; I thought it was just because she cries quite regularly and maybe I was just getting too used to seeing it. However, it's really happening with everyone I see now. I saw a really pretty woman cry a few days ago, and I didn't even feel the urge to continue looking at her.
Can fetishes disappear? I think it's happening to me. I don't know how to feel about this.
- tearhunter
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Re: Fetish fading away
It can definitely wax and wane for sure - for me when I was mega busy I found I had less time for it but during my illness I found it came back stronger - perhaps because I was experiencing more personal crying - but I'm not sure I really know why it came back stronger to be honest.
It could be that because you have seen a lot of tears from your wife recently that you are becoming a bit 'desensitised' to them - sometimes the thrill is to chase and hunt down the tears and if you get them too easy the thrill is not there.
I can understand why you would be confused especially if its been a part of you for a long time.
- TorNorth
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Re: Fetish fading away
You might treat it as a good thing since it could have gotten rid of an unnecessary complication in life...unless you really miss those feelings, of course.
Ugly crying is pretty crying
- inmyarmsagain
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Re: Fetish fading away
Mine comes and goes as well. Don't sweat it.
- Yowza
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Re: Fetish fading away
Sometimes mine does. It will fade away sometimes, and be strong sometimes. I'd say mine was much more powerful as a little kid.
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- carrotcake
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Re: Fetish fading away
Yeah, sometimes I just don't think about for awhile, or other things seem to be holding my interest more. I understand how that can be a strange feeling. I agree with tearhunter that at least for me, part of it is the fact that observations are so rare -- it makes it more thrilling when it finally happens.