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I'll definitely be crying
So, I'm about to move 2,000 miles away, and I know I'll be crying a lot. I'm leaving my hometown, so my family lives here. I'm also leaving my best friend, a guy who was the subject of several observations that I posted on the old forum. And, maybe hardest of all, I'm leaving my boyfriend here. We'll be having a long-distance relationship for at least ten months, with probably only one visit (MAYBE two) during that time. We're hoping he can join me after ten months, but it may be longer, depending on how our financial situation works out. This is a necessity, and we'll definitely both benefit from the opportunities we're about to have, but it's going to be extremely difficult for us.
The one positive side, haha, is that I'll probably have a lot of observations to post. I'm definitely not going to post the ones about my parents (yikes!), but I'll just say that my mom has cried a few times, and I actually saw my dad cry for the second time in my life. But WAY more than enough about THAT, haha!
My boyfriend hasn't cried yet, actually. He says he's trying not to think about it, but he's afraid it'll really hit him when I leave. He teased me that he'll probably cry as soon as I'm gone, and he'll have to videotape it. He says he hopes he breaks down before I leave so that I'll be here to comfort him (he's not turned on by it, but he loves being comforted). I'm trying to be excited about the move, but I guarantee I'll have some good stories to post here!!
Also, I have a secret wish that I'll see my best friend cry. I've never actually seen him cry, just get very emotional, and once I heard his voice shake on the phone. But man, if I could get a good observation there, my life would be complete! ;)
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Re: I'll definitely be crying
Looking forward to it. ;)
In about four months the company I work for will end its contract with its 700+ employees. I know some tears will be shed there. Who knows, maybe I'll get tearful too. I hope to see some decent observations, anyway.
Ugly crying is pretty crying
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Definitely post about all the tears you see!
My boyfriend actually almost broke down yesterday, because of the stress of this move (he's moving too, across town) and a couple of other things that he's trying to get done that are SO stressful. But he was exhausted and ended up falling asleep instead. I got to comfort him, but there wasn't any crying.
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Sounds like a tough time coming up for both of you.
This is one of the big problems with our fetish - tears are often only shed during sad and difficult times in our lives - which can make you feel guilty when you get turn on by them.
I witnessed loads of people being made redundant in my old job over many years and saw lots of tears from my fellow colleagues. Some of those tears where truely stunning from women I found very attractive and I was definitely turned on by them. Sounds a bit heartless when you consider many where friends but sometimes you just can't help it!
I also have the same problem when my wife cries - I have to be there for her when she is upset but re-live the moment later in my mind to fully enjoy her tears.
I will look forward to observations from both of you over the next few weeks and months.
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It's true, it is a unique situation -- being aroused by the tears but feeling guilty because of the pain. However, since a huge part of my fetish is the comforting, I definitely enjoy the whole experience in the moment. I guess it helps that my boyfriend knows about and completely accepts my fetish. I do count on re-living the moment in my mind, though, because I'm often distracted by trying to help him. Especially if he hasn't cried in a while! He hasn't fully broken down in quite some time (a year or so), so I'm relying on my memories at the moment.
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I hope your best friend cries!!! To want to see a friend cry who you've never seen cry before but always wanted to? Totally can relate to that. Good luck!! And good luck with your boyfriend too, both as far as obs goes and the long distance relationship in general.
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I hope your best friend cries!!! To want to see a friend cry who you've never seen cry before but always wanted to? Totally can relate to that. Good luck!! And good luck with your boyfriend too, both as far as obs goes and the long distance relationship in general.
Thanks! I talked to my best friend on the phone last night for a really long time, and he was more open than he has been in a while (this is the friend I've posted about who is really emotionally troubled and closed off). I hope this is a good sign! I reeeaaaalllyy would like to see him cry...
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Carrotcake, I know a thing or two about long-distance love. If you and your guy are sufficiently committed to it, you can indeed make it work. If you'd like something to take your mind off things you might enjoy checking out a couple of young ladies named Samantha Fish and Susan Tedesche (I think that's the right spelling, LOL) They play some of the most serious blues I've heard in quite a while. Worth your time, I promise you. Best wishes and hugs.