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I decided to post a small new Observation because the Forum ist more active in the past few days.
We had some friends for a visit and showed them around our neighbourhood. Thevititing woman has a lot of health issues (cancer) and ist having a hard time right now.
By showing them around we ended at our catholic church and went inside. Everybody was looking at differnt things in the church. Suddenly I saw our friend sitting in a bench row, head lowered, face in her hands and I could see her shoulders heaving, no sound. I am sure nobody else saw this brief episode of sorrow/grief/ maybe even gratitude.
When I look back to different visits in the church I remember different episodes of tears (not at funerals but in normal service).
The most intense was during child church. The pope told a nice little story I don't remember the contence anymore and one mother burst into tears right in the middle of it and had to be comforted by others. I was sitting opposite just watching. I remember the kids asking why the woman was crying and the pope told them, that sometimes lief is just sad and that sad memories lead to tears sometimes.
Have you experienced tears in church?
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I grew up Evangelical, so needless to say I experienced and witnessed a LOT of tears in church/youth group. Some are good memories for me but many are bad.
Now I wish I could have an experience like the mother you described had. I don't know that I could ever let go like that and completely lose control in a real-life situation. And I wish I could.
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Back when I used to be a Catholic (I'm a mainline Protestant now), I saw a guy sitting on the opposite side of the (huge) church from me who kept tearing up over something: every once in a while his face would contort and he'd bury it in his hands. This all occurred in the interval before Mass began, but if anyone around him noticed, no one said or did anything. I believe he actually got up and left the church shortly after Mass began. Needless to say, I've always wondered what was going on in his life that he was so sad about.