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April 15, 2016 7:46 pm  #1


So, I've Gotten Someone Else into This

Let me preface by saying that I know this board is geared more toward non-sexual dacryphilia, so I hope this post doesn't go beyond anyone's comfort zone.

This concerns an experience I have recently had with a woman  whom I've become close to, a friend with benefits basically. It's not my co-worker "Alicia" from my last post, for curious. Anyway, we had discussed in quite a lot of detail the things that turn us on, and she said she really wanted to try something that I was interested in.

I wound up telling her all about my fetish for women crying. I told her how I love the sound of it, how I love the anguished facial expressions, the tears on her cheeks falling onto my shoulders, the feeling of her chest and belly heaving against me, or the way you can feel a woman crying during sex, feeling the muscular tightness and contractions whichever way you go in.

That last part seemed to really catch her interest. In any case, a discussion between the two of us at some later point resulted in her deciding that she needed a good cry in my arms. I invited her to lay down and snuggle with me in bed. She lay her face on my shoulder and cried in fits of hard but stifled silent sobs, as I nuzzled the side of her face. Eventually she looked at me and said "I want to have sex with you while I'm crying."

It was all the cue we needed and within a minute we were all involved. Each orgasm seemed to make her cry harder until she was borderline hysterical and wrapped fully around me with her arms and legs around me and her wet face against my left shoulder. She tried to speak at a few points, but couldn't get more than a word or two out.

I recall the way her sobs felt as if they traveled in rippling waves. Each sob would begin at the top of her belly just below her ribs and flow downward in a smooth, liquid motion, setting her belly undulating against me like a belly dancer's, and then the force of it would roll downward through her mound into her genital region, and tighten and pulse around me with her driving emotions.

We probably went at it for nearly an hour if not longer. Eventually she was sated and soothed. I asked her afterwards, in somewhat more blunt terms than I'll use on here, "did you enjoy that? Did you feel yourself moving around me as you sobbed?"

She answered, "oh my God, yes, that felt amazing. It felt so tight when I came, like I was pulsing on you. It was so intimate...I never knew that could happen."

It's happened a few more times between us since then and I think she may be developing an addiction to the feeling.

I may have created a monster, but I'm not complaining.


"Bless me now with your fierce tears..."
 

April 16, 2016 9:54 am  #2


Re: So, I've Gotten Someone Else into This

In terms of sexual or non-sexual dacryphilia, the board itself doesn't have cater to one more than the other. It's just that majority of the members are geared towards non-sexual. Me and many others have a sexual interest.

I think what you've just described is a lifelong fantasy for many of us. It just blows my mind that you talked about your interest with a woman, and then she offered to both indulge you and herself in it. Making love to a woman while she's crying is definitely an experience many here would love to have. Did you get a good look at her face while she's crying? Can you describe the expressions?
 


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April 16, 2016 7:56 pm  #3


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To be honest, she doesn't have the most expressive crying face. She just looks generally sad. Not like the anguished face my friend "Alicia" has. You, TorNorth, would have loved the girl I dated for two years in college. She always cried with a big pouty face, with a curled up bottom lip.

With her I hinted at my fetishes a few times but was too reticent to just explain forthright what I wanted. Occasionally during sex a single tear ran down her cheek, but that was it. Looking back, I should have been bolder and more experimental with her about many things. Live and learn.

I don't have a girlfriend right now, but I have a lot of close female friends. Some of whom I hook up with. The interesting thing about the girl that this thread is about is how quickly she picked it up.

It's gotten to the point of being a Pavlov's Dog type response where, after enough orgasms, she needs to break down and cry. I saw her again the other night, and she began to sob during sex. I paused and asked her if she was really crying and she said yes. I asked her why and she said "because I want to. I need to.  It feels so good."

We were cuddling afterwards and she said "God it feels amazing to cry for you." I think she was a secret dacryphile who needed to be unlocked.

Last edited by NeedHerSobs (April 16, 2016 7:58 pm)


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April 17, 2016 12:20 am  #4


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Oh. My. God. Where are you finding these women? Those things she's saying to you? Like she wants to cry just for you? And you have a circle of female friends who you occasionally hook up with? Your life sounds exactly like the selfish sexual fantasies I had while I was in high school.

One thing that has surprised me (and something that I may have in common with your new girl), is that I think I have been getting more sexual satisfaction when I'm the one crying and my wife is not.

It took me many months just to get my wife to stop wiping her tears directly from her eyes. I must know your secret.

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April 17, 2016 12:42 am  #5


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I guess one advantage in my life is my increasing ability to surround myself with people who are on a similar wavelength with me, in one way or another.

One thing to point out. Alicia is my platonic co-worker friend who I've comforted at times. This is a new girl I've met. We'll call her Bethany. Again, not her actual name but related.

Bethany is an internet cam girl who I wound up chatting with. We discovered we lived near each other and one thing led to another. I guess sometimes those "hot local gals want to meet you!" ads turn out to be true.

I hope this doesn't sound like a fish story. I know it all probably seems like way too many happy coincidences to be true, but on my honor, that's exactly how it happened. I wouldn't kid you about something like this.


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April 19, 2016 1:39 pm  #6


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I believe you and I'm certainly not judging you. Your post was beautifully written. I'm glad you're enjoying each other so much. I'm in an open marriage, an arrangement my wife and I agreed on because we're away from each other for nearly 6 months out of the year. If someone like Bethany were to come along in my life, I wouldn't hesitate for a second. Oh the possibilities!

 

April 19, 2016 5:34 pm  #7


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truffle wrote:

If someone like Bethany were to come along in my life, I wouldn't hesitate for a second. Oh the possibilities!

Once, on a cross country trip, I wound up hooking up with a girl in Los Angeles who involuntarily cried whenever she had an orgasm. Maybe I'll have to tell that story some time. 

Beyond that, you might be surprised how many things people are willing to try for partners, and how many wind up liking it.
 


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April 20, 2016 5:55 pm  #8


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How is someone able to just decide to cry.  I've always wondered how people do that.  That's soumds incredible.

 

April 20, 2016 5:58 pm  #9


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Were there a lot of tears?

 

April 20, 2016 6:10 pm  #10


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I think it was a matter of emotional response. She found that she likes crying for me and the feelings that the thought stirs are strong enough to provoke the crying response.

Not too many tears, though. She's more of a dry crier. Alicia, by contrast is quite a bit more teary but not remarkably so. Another lady friend of mine, "Heather," is a fairly dry crier but has a cute sounding cry. She manages to wail softly if such a thing can be imagined.

One I found interesting was the girl I dated senior year of college, "Tara." She was such a wet crier, tears flowing everywhere. My shoulder would be soaked to the bone any time she had a sob session on my arms.

That's something I love about this fetish, the individuality of each woman's cry. Crying is a fine wine, and I mean to taste as many vintages as I can.


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