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Hi all!
I couldn't find an introduction thread so I'm sorry if this is totally out of left field but I felt odd beginning to comment on threads without officially introducing myself and a bit about my dacryphilia background.
Ever since I was young, I had always been facinged with tears. I always had the urge to comfort anyone's o ever saw cry. At times, when I saw someone close to me become emotional, I would secretly hope they would begin to cry so I could comfort them. As I got older, I started noticing how people's tears would turn me on (not necessarily just the opposite sex, but it is more prevalent with males) This was solidified to me when a high school boyfriend of mine broke down at one time and I noticed myself becoming very turned on. I kept this to myself for awhile because I felt a bit sadistic. I didn't know why I felt the way I did and I didn't want anyone to think I took pleasure in their pain, as my feelings were the complete opposite. I started doing some research a few years ago and found articles on dacryphilia. I was so relieved to know that, not only wasn't I alone in my feelings, but that it was also completely normal.
A bit about myself otherwise. I'm 22. My boyfriend and I have just bought our first house together in a little farm town in California. I work full time as a coffee shop manager/supervisor and recently just started going back to school full time. I've also started doing some bar tending at night. Looking foreword to meeting everyone and discussing dacryphilia in a safe place.
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Welcome! I can relate to what you say about comforting.
I'm curious -- is there any character in a movie or TV show that you've ever felt you wanted to comfort, or is there any celebrity you've ever wanted to comfort?
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I can't say that there has ever been a specific celebrity who I have ever fantasizes about comforting. What I find is myself fantasizing about characters in movies I have recently seen. Whether it be inserting myself into a crying scene of the movie(usually adding details of my own) or making up my own fantasies of actors I find attractive
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ElegantTears, I can relate to much of what you write. Though I can't say I've ever tried to insert myself into a scene, I certainly have felt a strong desire to comfort certain male characters who are crying or vulnerable; I've also imagined these actors crying in their private lives.
Welcome again! If you're so inclined, check out the crying videos and images I've posted, as I'd love to have your comments if any of them are personal favorites of yours.
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Welcome from another lady obsessed with male tears!
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I'm also a female who's obsessed with male tears, but prefers them to be acted tears rather than IRL. I can't stand seeing people in pain!
I look forward to reading more of your posts and learning more about you. Welcome!