Crying Lovers / By gender, what is your favorite comforting duo?

**Posted by andjyx** July 8, 2021 2:05 pm

Not sure whether the question sounds clear so i’ll rephrase it like this: do you prefer seeing a female comforting a male, vice versa, or someone comforting a person of the same sex?

My personal preference as a girl is comforting guys. Although what makes me most emotional to witness is a guy comforting a guy.

I’ve actually comforted my “dream person” two months ago, i think i pm-ed the obs to Amans but i’ll be sure to post it here.

Last edited by andjyx (July 8, 2021 2:07 pm)

**Posted by Amans lacrimae** July 8, 2021 2:09 pm

Quite an interesting question Andj, since you mention favorite, mine is a guy comforting a girl (especially if that guy is me), but I find it a thrill and, also a turn on when a girl comforts a guy.

How would the ideal comfort session be like for you?

Last edited by Amans lacrimae (July 8, 2021 2:10 pm)

**Posted by caircair** July 8, 2021 2:37 pm

I don't have a preference as to who does the comforting, but I very much prefer having a guy being comforted, especially if he's emotionally out of control.

**Posted by andjyx** July 8, 2021 2:41 pm

caircair wrote:
I don't have a preference as to who does the comforting, but I very much prefer having a guy being comforted, especially if he's emotionally out of control.

Ohhh yes the guy that can’t stop himself from crying and surrenders to comforting, literally a dream.

**Posted by Princess_Lucky1731** July 8, 2021 3:13 pm

andjyx wrote:
caircair wrote:
I don't have a preference as to who does the comforting, but I very much prefer having a guy being comforted, especially if he's emotionally out of control.
Ohhh yes the guy that can’t stop himself from crying and surrenders to comforting, literally a dream.

I guess I'll third that.

I love seeing a guy comforting another guy or a woman comforting a guy. Esp if I'm the woman.

**Posted by repressedjudie** July 8, 2021 5:07 pm

i definitely prefer a man being comforted, especially by another man, though a woman comforting a man is also nice. i'm also partial to crying together, especially if it starts with comforting and then the comforter breaks down too... that's very nice with any gender combo.

**Posted by reptongeek** July 9, 2021 12:39 pm

I prefer a woman comforting a woman although as a second choice a man comforting a woman

**Posted by Amans lacrimae** July 9, 2021 8:23 pm

repressedjudie wrote:
i definitely prefer a man being comforted, especially by another man, though a woman comforting a man is also nice. i'm also partial to crying together, especially if it starts with comforting and then the comforter breaks down too... that's very nice with any gender combo.

I have to agree with you, there is something extremely intimate in crying together, it's something between a spiritual connection and an instinctive lust that turns you on in no time.

**Posted by TorNorth** July 10, 2021 6:46 am

Definitely women comforting women. The chances are that the comforter might cry too.

**Posted by truffle** July 11, 2021 2:37 am

These days the rarer the obs, the more I prefer it. I've only seen a guy comforting a guy once in my life, so that's what I crave the most. The most common obs for me are women comforting women and men comforting women. I enjoy these too, but they're not as exciting to me anymore.