| Crying Videos » Adam Driver sobbing - Marriage Story scene » December 29, 2019 2:12 am |
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Damn, that's fantastic. He has beautiful sobs, and I love how she walks over and comforts him.
| Crying Discussion » Friend Sobbed While Sitting in My Lap » December 29, 2019 2:05 am |
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This sounds lovely. I especially like your description of her silent, shaking sobs and gasps for breath.
| Crying Discussion » Currently watching someone cry in public » December 9, 2019 2:35 pm |
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truffle wrote:This is so good.
Was she looking around at all? Did she notice you or anyone else watching her? God I'd be so self conscious if I was her. I can't imagine doing therapy in a coffee shop.She didn't notice me, especially since the line of sight between us was obscured most of the time by the therapist's head. I don't think she was looking around; from what I could see, she was mostly looking at the therapist and down at the table.
I didn't see anyone else watching, but I assume other people noticed. It was pretty quiet in the coffee shop, and while she wasn't crying loudly, I can't imagine not noticing such an unusual thing happening. Then again, most people aren't as attuned to crying as I am, so maybe other people noticed briefly but didn't find it distracting.
| Crying Discussion » Currently watching someone cry in public » December 6, 2019 6:50 pm |
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They've now left; they set a date for her next appointment. There was a bit more crying, mostly wiping eyes and sniffling. I find it fascinating that they had a therapy appointment that was clearly going to be emotional in such a public space.
| Crying Discussion » Currently watching someone cry in public » December 6, 2019 6:32 pm |
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The woman is showing zero discomfort about her public tears. I am now positive the other woman is a therapist, based on some comments she made. She's allowing silent space for the other woman to cry and express her thoughts, interjecting when appropriate with gentle advice.
| Crying Discussion » Currently watching someone cry in public » December 6, 2019 6:29 pm |
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I'm sitting in a coffee shop trying to get work done, and there's a woman at the next table openly crying! She's about 35 with short hair. I keep glimpsing her face when she moves, but it's mostly obscured by the other woman at the table. Her eyes and face are bright red, she keeps wiping tears right below her eyes, essentially stopping them from streaming down her face. She removed her glasses a few minutes ago when it became clear that she was going to continue to cry.
I think they might be engaged in some sort of casual therapy session, because the other woman has a notebook and is providing advice. Could just be a friend. They seem to be talking about caring for sick family members, but I can't really hear them.
Now the woman is sobbing into her hands. She's clearly trying to control her sobs. The other woman is reaching across the table and gently touching her shoulder. The crying woman is periodically blowing her nose into a tissue.
I would be very uncomfortable crying this openly in public, but I'm certainly not complaining about witnessing it!
| Crying Discussion » Do you talk about your crying obsession outside of this forum? » October 3, 2019 9:12 pm |
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I talk about it with my H. He's also very willing to indulge me and talk about it/use it to flirt with me. For what it's worth, I was apprehensive about telling him, as well as my previous boyfriend, and neither of them thought it was weird or disgusting or anything. In both relationships, it served to foster emotional intimacy, which naturally led to physical intimacy, so I'd say that it has actually improved my relationships.
I don't think I would ever tell anyone else, just as I don't talk about my other sexual preferences with friends. Not that there's anything wrong with discussing it with a friend; it just feels too intimate for me.
| Introduce Yourself » I’m so happy to have found this forum :) » August 12, 2019 9:06 pm |
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Welcome!
| Crying Discussion » Two Train Obs » August 6, 2019 12:40 pm |
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Great obs! It sounds as if you were able to position yourself discreetly enough so that you could observe without being noticed. That's always ideal.
| Crying Discussion » First time » August 6, 2019 12:38 pm |
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Amans lacrimae wrote:
I am surprised he readily cried in front of you, even allowed you to wipe his tears, dos wiping His tears Made him sob harder? Like you, I also have trouble crying in front of somebody I haven't cried before.
When you cried in front of him, he took care of you like a pro, seems he was used to, he held you in his arms and kissed your tears, how did you feel when he did? (At least he cried in front of you sooner than you did, guess that made you feel more comfortable?).
Have a wonderful weekend, missed you on the site.Wiping his tears didn't make him sob harder that time - he only sobbed briefly, and after that he was just facing me with tears on his cheeks. Wiping them was intensely intimate for both of us. He had no trace of embarrassment or discomfort about crying in front of me and never has since.
When he held me in my arms when I cried that first time, I felt safe and comforted. I wasn't embarrassed at all, just relieved that I was finally crying with him.