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August 10, 2019 3:17 pm  #21


Re: First time

andjyx wrote:

The thing is that there wasn't much of the visible part on that occasion. As soon as i started quietly sobbing, he grabbed me in his arms and literally all my tears ended on his shirt and neck. Same happened when i cried again a few minutes after, when he teased me about something but i was still upset so i broke down again, he immediately hugged me tightly and in both occasions i have cried on his shoulder literally until the moment i stopped crying completely, so there were no running tears that day.

I do think that the symptoms change with age; i think that we cry more freely as children, never hiding tears or holding it in...and as we get older we tend to hold it in, hide our crying face etc. because we start to feel ashamed of crying without care. Nonetheless, i also think that men are more of "quiet" criers; based on what I've experienced in real life, most of them just bury their faces in their hands and sob silently, and not for too long also, whereas women are more prone to letting their tears fall unchecked while also making crying faces and even sobbing freely.

Haha thanks i guess, that's so sweet! I do love having my tears wiped away and also doing it for other people (preferably males...don't know why, i just feel more compassionate when a male cries). Well i don't cry that often, so when i do, i cry a lot. And they mostly run down in a single stream, they form multiple streaks when i'm literally having a complete meltdown which is thankfully rare.
Honestly, i tried not to pay attention to the people passing by, i was really not too amused with crying in public. But i am sure no one stopped to ask what's wrong and so. And as i mentioned above, i haven't had any tears run down my face as they all ended up on him lol. But i did cry in front of him again, though on that occassion i didn't cry on his shoulder. It was a regular hug (like, my chin was on his shoulder) so the tears that ran down my face ended up on his shirt when they went all the way down. And that time he did wipe my tears and we both smiled (actually, just the right one...he probably didn't realize that i had another tear streak that went from the corner of my left eye down to my lips).

I've had people hug and comfort me while i cry, but his hug was definitely something else. Even though he ended up disappointing me on one occasion, the way he comforted me that day just shows how emotional and compassionate he is, no matter how childish at times. Which is probably why i was so in love with him. And yes, I've had my tears wiped mostly by guys i have been with, and maybe a couple of friends. Actually I've had a guy friend sleep over three months ago and we were laying on my bed on our sides, i broke down because of something that had happened the night before and started sobbing in his chest. When i moved away he gently kissed away my tears which made me feel priceless (my whole face was wet because i cried intensely and for a good 10 minutes). 

P.S i have read the obs you provided a link for and oh God, its one of the most beautiful i have read on this site so far! So amazing that the girl ended up crying without a shame in front of you.

Amazing obs, having your tears wiped by your crush is priceless (how could he have missed that tear?) .
The other obs seems also beautiful, he must be really confident in order to kiss your tears.

By the way, to quote you have to look for the message you are quoting and it has the option to quote, near of the edit option area in your own posts.

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August 11, 2019 5:24 am  #22


Re: First time

andjyx wrote:

P.S i have read the obs you provided a link for and oh God, its one of the most beautiful i have read on this site so far! So amazing that the girl ended up crying without a shame in front of you.

Just noticed the obs I provided in the link is not the one intended, here is the one I originally wanted to share with you.
https://cryinglovers.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=1599

Last edited by Amans lacrimae (August 11, 2019 3:52 pm)

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August 27, 2019 1:30 am  #23


Re: First time

My wife and I met during university. We were initially just friends for about 6 weeks. During this time, the third day after I met her, my eyes welled up with tears because of something another friend said about their brother's illness, and she made eye contact with me so she saw the tears. About three weeks later I saw tears in her eyes after she had laughed hard.
 
After those six weeks, she went overseas for an audition/performance opportunity. We literally talked on the phone for three hours a day during this time and things became romantic between us during her second week away. I met her at the airport when she got back and got SO emotional when I saw her. I hugged her really tight and teared up immediately. She then kissed me right there in front of a hundred strangers. When we pulled away, I though I had successfully blinked back the tears, but she remembers it differently. She SWEARS that I shed a tiny tear from my right eye when she pulled away. So basically she saw a tear run down my cheek in the first 30 seconds of our relationship, and she didn't even wipe it for me https://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/cross.png


My wife saw me cry twice before we were dating and before we were even friends, but both times she was about 50 feet away from me and didn't interact with me. I didn't even know she had seen me until she told me many months later.


I'm a woman and I think women are beautiful when they cry.
 

August 27, 2019 3:35 am  #24


Re: First time

truffle wrote:

My wife and I met during university. We were initially just friends for about 6 weeks. During this time, the third day after I met her, my eyes welled up with tears because of something another friend said about their brother's illness, and she made eye contact with me so she saw the tears. About three weeks later I saw tears in her eyes after she had laughed hard.
 
After those six weeks, she went overseas for an audition/performance opportunity. We literally talked on the phone for three hours a day during this time and things became romantic between us during her second week away. I met her at the airport when she got back and got SO emotional when I saw her. I hugged her really tight and teared up immediately. She then kissed me right there in front of a hundred strangers. When we pulled away, I though I had successfully blinked back the tears, but she remembers it differently. She SWEARS that I shed a tiny tear from my right eye when she pulled away. So basically she saw a tear run down my cheek in the first 30 seconds of our relationship, and she didn't even wipe it for me https://cdn.boardhost.com/emoticons/cross.png


My wife saw me cry twice before we were dating and before we were even friends, but both times she was about 50 feet away from me and didn't interact with me. I didn't even know she had seen me until she told me many months later.

Wow, you two are fast, less than a week she saw you tear up, well, no tears fell, so I guess the first real obs would be the one at the airport? Based on her POV, since you swear you blinked back tears ;), it would have been more evident if she had wiped it.
And her first tears were happy tears.

Thanks, lovely obs

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August 28, 2019 3:33 pm  #25


Re: First time

Amans lacrimae wrote:

andjyx wrote:

P.S i have read the obs you provided a link for and oh God, its one of the most beautiful i have read on this site so far! So amazing that the girl ended up crying without a shame in front of you.

Just noticed the obs I provided in the link is not the one intended, here is the one I originally wanted to share with you.
https://cryinglovers.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=1599

I actually did read this one before. Purely amazing. Reminds me of some of my cries; i gotta admit i love feeling someone’s shirt getting soaked with my tears, and although i sadly had only few opportunities to offer someone a shoulder to cry on, i love the sensation on myself as well. You seem like an amazing comforter. Wish everyone was as sensible as you when they have a crying person in front of them...

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August 28, 2019 5:12 pm  #26


Re: First time

andjyx wrote:

Amans lacrimae wrote:

andjyx wrote:

P.S i have read the obs you provided a link for and oh God, its one of the most beautiful i have read on this site so far! So amazing that the girl ended up crying without a shame in front of you.

Just noticed the obs I provided in the link is not the one intended, here is the one I originally wanted to share with you.
https://cryinglovers.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=1599

I actually did read this one before. Purely amazing. Reminds me of some of my cries; i gotta admit i love feeling someone’s shirt getting soaked with my tears, and although i sadly had only few opportunities to offer someone a shoulder to cry on, i love the sensation on myself as well. You seem like an amazing comforter. Wish everyone was as sensible as you when they have a crying person in front of them...

Honestly, I wish I were that sensible when I have a crying person in front of me! My brain tends to shatter into a million pieces when someone cries in front of me, especially if I already have some feelings for them. I can almost pull myself together sometimes, but I rarely get to play a good, solid comforter role. Maybe someday, though!

 

August 28, 2019 5:26 pm  #27


Re: First time

Dacrypticphile wrote:

andjyx wrote:

Amans lacrimae wrote:


Just noticed the obs I provided in the link is not the one intended, here is the one I originally wanted to share with you.
https://cryinglovers.boardhost.com/viewtopic.php?id=1599

I actually did read this one before. Purely amazing. Reminds me of some of my cries; i gotta admit i love feeling someone’s shirt getting soaked with my tears, and although i sadly had only few opportunities to offer someone a shoulder to cry on, i love the sensation on myself as well. You seem like an amazing comforter. Wish everyone was as sensible as you when they have a crying person in front of them...

Honestly, I wish I were that sensible when I have a crying person in front of me! My brain tends to shatter into a million pieces when someone cries in front of me, especially if I already have some feelings for them. I can almost pull myself together sometimes, but I rarely get to play a good, solid comforter role. Maybe someday, though!

Exactly what I’m talking about. When i see people cry it really gets to me, especially if i feel something for them. Then it literally breaks my heart. I wish i had more chances to be there for people that way.

 

August 29, 2019 5:15 am  #28


Re: First time

andjyx wrote:

I actually did read this one before. Purely amazing. Reminds me of some of my cries; i gotta admit i love feeling someone’s shirt getting soaked with my tears, and although i sadly had only few opportunities to offer someone a shoulder to cry on, i love the sensation on myself as well. You seem like an amazing comforter. Wish everyone was as sensible as you when they have a crying person in front of them...

You know, I had never given it thought, but I also get a thrill when I feel warm tears seeping through my shirt to my chest, and the face when the girl pulls away from my chest is usually priceless, seems that, since her face is pressed against my shirt, the tears smear her face and the tears run through different paths leaving several streaks on her face, which usually I end up wiping.

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