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Hey guys,
First off, my name is Mo and I live in New Brunswick, Canada. I am 29 years old and am an out and proud lesbian. For as long as I can remember, even as a child..I was always really drawn to beautiful women who cry. Even in cartoons, at a younger age..not anymore. I've always sort of dismissed it, or kept it to myself because it makes me feel like a freak, or something in my head isn't right.
I actually hate seeing my girlfriends cry, it does break my heart and I wanna do all I can to comfort them. But when this happens, I often find myself getting turned on by their cries or sobs, depending on the person. I do not ever wish any pain or sadness on anyone, but for some weird, unexplained reason, I get really turned on by pretty girls who cry. No I would never engage in play leading up to making someone cry in the bedroom..the last thing on my mind when comforting a girl is sex, although I notice getting really turned on by their crying. I have never understood this, and started questioning it tonight..then I looked it up, and bam. Answers. I still feel weird and kind of ashamed of this...Like, I will purposely fast forward through movies to find good crying scenes that attractive actresses are in...what. the. Hell....
Sigh. I'm just glad I found this place cause I know I am not alone here..Any others relate, especially women? Because I read that most dacryphiliacs are men, and well, I am not..in the minority I guess lol Hope to meet some people on here who get me and this weirdness!
Last edited by Moniker (November 13, 2015 5:05 am)
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Welcome! You've definitely come to the right place! As far as relating goes, you'll find most of us "get it". And I think you'll find there is more than one kind of dacryphiliac - there's the BDSM type that actually gets a thrill from MAKING someone cry, which I think is mostly men, and there's the comforting type that wants to COMFORT someone crying but doesn't want to cause the crying. I think the second type is mostly women, and I suspect you are a comfort dacryphiliac as well. That's the kind I am, too - I DO NOT enjoy seeing people I care about crying because I'm too focused on easing their pain, but I can never NOT remember being intrigued/moved by the sight of someone crying on TV or in the movies. In my case, I respond most strongly to men crying, I think because there's that hint of the "forbidden" in our culture.
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Mo, nice to meet you. Believe it, you're absolutely among friends I hope you will like this forum, and I believe you will. Don't be shy about posting...again, we're all friends here.
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thanks guys Also, Caircair, I believe you're absolutely right about me being a comfort dacryphiliac. I hope I can gain a better understanding of this here among friends, and what may have caused this is me.,Because it goes WAY back lol
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Welcome, Mo! I am also a woman, so you are most certainly not the only one. There are actually quite a bit of women on these forums! I, however, am straight and is attracted to more of the comforting, not the crying itself. I hope you enjoy being a part of this community.
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