Yeah, that's really rare to see tears like that on a sitcom. Usually it's all slapstick sobbing with no tears at all. Very cute scene!

meantangerine wrote:

Yeah, that's really rare to see tears like that on a sitcom.

I miss the sitcom archive on the old forum.   There were several fairly realistic crying scenes.  Something about the contrast between comedy and crying really does it for me.  And even when it's cringe-worthy bad, it still fascinates me... there's still a rush of excitement, even though the result is disappointing.

Still looking for a "Howard" type friend to call my own... (*sigh*... maybe I really should hire an actor to act out my fantasies some day if I ever get up the courage).

If there are other scenes like this from comedies that people know about, please post about them, thanks!!!!

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I'm sure a bunch of male actors would be willing to step up to the plate for a reasonable fee, but in my life, the sticky spots are the level of trust involved (getting together alone with a guy I don't know in this particular context seems kind of scary to me, although I suppose it could be done in a public place, if he were willing to cry in public), and, the level to which this setup would constitutes cheating.  I know my husband and I know how he feels... if it happened with a friend because the friend happened to have real issues, of course he wouldn't consider it cheating, but if I hired a male actor to do the same thing, he would not be cool with that... on so many levels... but it may be different in other relationships, that's just mine. 

I've only told one friend about my fetish, kind of in the hopes that it would open up our friendship more (which would have been awesome in its own way, even without crying) or possibly tempt him to kind of indulge me, but he hasn't spoken to me since (we don't live in the same place and were rarely in touch anyway, so I don't necessarily take this as a sign that I've scared him off forever, but even if I did, that was still a risk I was willing to take).  His immediate response to my fetish was that it was unusual and something he wasn't interested in, but I don't think he judges me for it.  I nearly told another guy friend after that, but I chickened out, and now I'm relieved that I didn't tell him.  It might have just been the same thing.  Actually, I think this guy would be both more interested and more understanding than the other guy, but on an intellectual level... I think the desire for a guy to cry in front of you has to come from his own feelings and not because he thinks he can turn you on with it (although I read that James Dean used to cry in front of girls to get them to like him or something like that... and I'm sure it worked, too!)

But the paid actor thing -- absolutely!!!  Suckerformanlytears... I think you should try it!!!  Seriously!!!  Is it feasible for you?  There's probably guys that will do it on a webcam too.  I used to think this group might kind of interact like that, crying for each other and fulfilling each other's specific fantasies, but I don't think we have any naturally weepy men on here that can cry on cue or want to make recordings (even just audio ones) and I don't know of any men on this group anywhere near me who I could meet up with in person.  The other fetish forum I belong to is filled with tales of fetishists meeting up in real life and the vast contributions of fetish material put up on YouTube is amazing.  Not to sound critical at all, as it's not like I'm contributing my own stuff here (or anywhere else).  It's just sad that our fetish is so rare.