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Crying Discussion » New Crying Questionnaire » March 29, 2024 4:56 pm

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Interesting questionnaire. So much of it relates to my distant past that it was hard to know how to answer some of the questions.

Crying Discussion » I think I found the board's official beverage! » February 10, 2024 6:23 pm

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Coca Cola is launching two new flavors, one of them is "Happy Tears". I haven't seen it in stores yet, but I can't wait to try it!

Coke launches Happy Tears and Coca-Cola Spiced sodas | Ad Age

 

Crying Discussion » What is the film that made you cry the most? » December 24, 2023 9:06 am

caircair
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Any Pixar film will have me in tears. Also any film about an estranged mother and daughter where they come together, e.g. "The Joy Luck Club". Any film with a happy ending after lots of tribulation.

Introduce Yourself » Remerging from the shadows » December 8, 2023 4:07 am

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Welcome back! You were missed.

Crying Discussion » extreme / extensive / intense crying » October 15, 2023 4:42 am

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Especially if the full-on uncontrollable ugly sobbing is happening in spite of the crier's wishes. There's something about when someone (for me, a man) loses control and cries with a bit of humiliation thrown in. It makes the idea of comforting him that much more appealing.

Crying Discussion » Crying Scenes Directory » September 22, 2023 1:50 am

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I say let's go to 110, then start the new one.

Crying Discussion » scared of being hated because of this fetish » May 27, 2023 5:44 am

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I agree with psychic_girl. This isn't at all sexual for me, I get an emotional thrill rather than a sexual one. There's the vulnerable aspect, the "taboo" aspect, but mainly for me it's about comforting. I have no desire to see anyone I know in tears -- the few times it's happened I was so caught up in the situation that there was no thrill, just an overwhelming need to ease the emotional pain. But when I see a well acted crying scene, I feel a strong desire to comfort that person (man), whether by holding him, patting his shoulder, or having him cry on my shoulder. There's a very strong sense of emotional intimacy from that happening that is more satisfying to me than out-and-out eroticism or sexual scenes. (I've often wondered if I may be demisexual or even asexual since emotional connection is much more important to me than physical connection.)

Crying Videos » Male actors crying » May 21, 2023 5:48 am

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I believe the medic is Thomas Barrow, normally not a sympathetic character in the early stages of Downton.

Crying Discussion » Managing Expectations » March 25, 2023 7:42 pm

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Ditto. The unexpected scenes are the best, although it's harder to enjoy them if I'm watching with my husband. I don't feel like I can enjoy them because he might see how much I AM enjoying them, and my dacryphilia is not something I'm ready to share with him (or anyone except the posters on this board).

Crying Discussion » My obsession with Crying might not be a fetish » May 14, 2022 1:38 am

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I'm the same. Seeing someone (generally a man) crying doesn't make me "hot and bothered", it makes me feel very protective. My urge is to wrap my arms around them and hold them, but not in a sexual way. For me, comforting someone crying is in many ways more satisfying than sex.

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