Worry wrote:

Amans lacrimae wrote:

Welcome Worry, I hope you find yourself comfortable here in this community, you are free to share whatever you like and if any question feels uncomfortable just say so and we'll understand.

I have a couple of questions for you.
How do you usually cry(a few tears/streams of tears, hide face in hands/wipe tears from face/allow tears to fall unchecked, cry silently/snivel/sobbing and shaking, no facial expression/mild chin tremble and lopsided lip/pronounced lip curl and chin tremble, normal voice/breaking voice/shaking or wavy voice)?
Do you cry alone or look for someone to cry to?
How do people react when you cry (become uncomfortable, comfort you verbally, hug you, wipe your tears)?
How do you react to others crying (comfort verbally, hug, wipe their tears)?

Very much depends on the situation. Generally I have big tears and a lot of them. I only tend to cover my mouth because I can't breathe through my nose so my mouth has to be open and depending on how upset I am I push on my chin to stop it from trembling. I don't really remember clearly what I sound like because I don't talk unless someone tries to comfort me, I can hold myself back until someone says "Are you ok?" Or "What's wrong?" Then my mind goes fuzzy because it's not easy to hold back tears and explain why I'm upset and then sobs. I know my voice breaks a lot and changes to a more weak version. I prefer to be alone when crying because then I have to worry about how I'm making others feel and if I look like a mess. Alone I don't have to wipe my face and worry about my makeup. I just focus on my thoughts. When other people cry I try to do for them what I want people to do for me, get them tissues and listen, let them know they don't have to say anything and let them go somewhere private if they need or just let them spill their heart out.

Hi, welcome there, Worry !
Did you notice any time you used to cry once alone, so while you weren't feeling the need to

+1 Same for me.

repressedjudie wrote:

Hey all! Thought this would be a good topic for conversation: what's your unrealistic, implausible, or unlikely crying fantasy? What combination of factors (gender, appearance, type of tears, relationship, cause, etc.) would make the ideal crying scenario for you, but are unlikely to occur for one reason or another.

Mine is sitting with someone, ideally a young, pretty woman, who doesn't want to be comforted with a hug, just have her hand held, so I can watch her cry. The unrealistic part comes in with the fantasy of this theoretical woman crying for long enough, with enough tears, and without wiping her eyes, that the tears make a puddle on the desk or table.

I think I watched Alice in Wonderland too many times as a kid...

Oh, man ! You said it. This is exactly what kind of fantasy I'm also in to...
On the realistic part, it wouldn't necessarily have to be a woman young or pretty (but definitely female), in my mind. Not old like a granny-look though, or scaringly ugly either, but still I can imagine quite a large possibility palette about that.
About the relationship, it would be someone I just met very recently and we would have sympathized fast enough so I could talk freely about anything, pretty much, but no attachment strong enough to put any kind of stakes between us either. She wouldn't like or need to be comforted by any physical contact, no hug or hand, because it wouldn't be for a serious reason, just a casual need to let herself go without any sorts of complex about it.
And for the rest this would be literally what you said on the last part 

Hey, thanks ! I appreciate your thoughts Excellent obs btw ;)

Amans lacrimae wrote:

Massivetearslover wrote:

Did you manage to notice if her tears made a large patch somewhere or multiple small ones or gather into other focus area, maybe ? BTW, great obs anyway !

It was in the middle of the night, so I couldn't see clearly, the only collection of tears I can guess is the collar of her tshirt.

Ok, good ! Sure it's not very convenient to see something where you're half in the dark, I guess XD