I have just now returned after I don't even know how long. I just got preoccupied with life and school and all of that other boring stuff, which is probably why others haven't been posting as often.

My vocal turn on is significantly... different from everyone else's on this thread, and is actually a huge fetish of mine just as powerful as my crying/comforting one, but since voices were mentioned on here, I just have to input... the sound of people talking underwater. I can't even begin to describe how obsessed I am with the sound. I have actually felt that way longer than I have about crying (4 years old when I started noticing it, wow)!

I really need to log on here more often, because I am always late to such good and relatable posts!

Diana, I know EXACTLY what you mean by it not being an actual "comforting" fetish. Of course, I call it that because that is the most common term among us crying lovers for those like us. When I have one of my many recurring fantasies of "comforting" men, it is never me making them happy or stopping their tears. My fantasies will usually start off with them slightly crying, and end up with the guy uncontrollably sobbing, completely vulnerable, having very little control. And the only thing I can do is hold him, rock him, wipe his tears and snot away, and protect him in his most vulnerable state. I know all of that sounds a bit intense, but really, the more motherly I am and the more I'm "taking care" of him, the more it absolutely gets me going. So yes, I much, much, much prefer him "falling to pieces" in my arms rather than being "comforted" in my arms.

Tearhunter, what you have summed up is very insightful and shows that you clearly understand all points of view when it comes to this amazing fetish. There is most certainly nothing wrong or evil about our personal pleasures at all!

And- oh my gosh, Diana, I just now read your "ad". I was smiling the whole way! Goodness, there just HAS to be w way to make this real! We need to get together, create our own website or something! It would be an absolute dream come true for something like that to exist! I can already imagine- sad, broken hearts wandering through the doors, shy and not knowing what to expect. Just desperate souls willing to do anything to let their emotions out. And then there's the proud, warm, kind, caring individuals waiting for these broken souls with open arms. It could be such a healing experience for both parties. Man, I hate getting excited over things that will probably never happen, but I am pretty excited right now. THIS REALLY REALLY NEEDS TO HAPPEN! This one girl opened her own business all by herself, hosting twerking and hip hop dancing classes. WE CAN DO THIS!

Wow, you are quite the lucky one. It is merely a dream of mine to meet a guy that open about his emotions to me.